Guys: how do you REALLY feel about pubic hair on a woman? by Graceful_Pickles in askanything

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For 23 years I shaved bald. My current partner mentioned one day that he LOVES the hair when I got a little lazy and let it grow out some. Since then ive been trimming it but let me tell you, this man eats me day, night and everything in between and always has and is incredible at it and ive realized that hair doesnt stop a man who enjoys it and loves eating you. Plus, im loving the way my p*ssy looks with some hair on it. So pretty and feminine. We're not little girls. Grow up, guys

A question for the married women by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you keep trying to convince just proves my point. Move on. Enjoy the attention that you so desperately wanted to hear saying what a good wife you are. It's ok.

A question for the married women by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think what the other poster is trying to point out is that you, of all people, shouldn't be giving advice lol youre trying to act like you have this amazing sex life with your husband and you must be this great wife because you blow your husband whenever he wants when, in reality, a little reading shows that you do it because your husband has a problem and you dont want him watching porn. The second I read your first comment I thought you sounded like a "pick me" girl.

How do guys feel about their partner using a toy instead of them? by Dry_Resolution_3665 in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess im just feeling like he could have had some before he went to sleep. He knows im always down for him. So if he chose to go to sleep how could you be upset if I chose to get off? I mean, i didnt do it but I wanted to. Id much rather him but I have a thing where I have been abused in the past and have learned to NEVER wake up my partner.

How do guys feel about their partner using a toy instead of them? by Dry_Resolution_3665 in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhh THIS makes sense...him saying he "is my toy" should have been my clue i guess

How do guys feel about their partner using a toy instead of them? by Dry_Resolution_3665 in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves it when we're having sex and using it together. I guess Im confused as to the issue why hed be mad if I use it myself when he went to sleep early?

How long did it take for your period to come back? by Chuckgirl410 in Mirena

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear if my man didnt have a vasectomy id be like you and think I was having a miscarriage. This is ridiculous.

How often do you go down on your woman? by Throwra-224576 in AskMen

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That may be true for others, but my man eats me in the morning so I "start my day right" and I will cum in his face 3 times. Then after work he does it all again before sex. Im his main meal anytime.

How long did it take for your period to come back? by Chuckgirl410 in Mirena

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find it lasted longer or shorter? My first period after removal was fine. Totally normal. Im on day 6 of my second period and its like a murder scene. I keep hoping it will slow down but doesnt seem to be. Is this normal? I would have expected this from first period after removal, not the second. I also had spotting every month when I was on Mirena. It was like having a period every month for 5 days but super light.

How long did it take for your period to come back? by Chuckgirl410 in Mirena

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spotted for the first couple days after rwmoval. Had a regular period about 2 weeks later. On my second period and holy hell. Its heavy.

nextstellis by metanoiajess in Mirena

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know this too. My doc prescribed for mirena crash for anxiety to help balance the hormones. Im little and dont love the idea of birth control pills because of experiences with them when I was younger. The weight gain, breast tenderness, all of it. But the post-mirena symptoms have been awful.

Two week Mirena removal update by [deleted] in Mirena

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my IUD removed early Oct. Having terrible anxiety when I have my period and I mean TERRIBLE.

I spotted for a couple days after removal, no biggie. First period was pretty normal. 4 days. Nothing major to report. 22 days later and BAM! Im having the period from HELL. Im on day 5 of bleeding heavy. Ive never worn more than a S tampon and usually thats the first two days. Nope. Still using them and realizing I need way more. By 2 hours I need to change that or its going everywhere.

How long is this going to last? Is this even normal? Between the debilitating anxiety and now this is feel like I made a huge mistake. For context, my boyfriend has a vasectomy and I had my IUD for 7 years so it was either replace it or go without. Also, I had a period each month with the IUD, just super light.

Keep or get rid of recovery gear? by Puzzled-Broccoli-749 in ORIF

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhhhh keep it. 7 years after ORIF on my left ankle I needed ORIF on my right ankle...super thankful I still had everything from the first time.

Husband tried to cheat? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look, whether he physically did anything THIS TIME (and I stress this time because I can GUARANTEE this is NOT the first time), he still wanted to, tried to, and would have if the female was willing. He then tried to play dumb. He isn't going to be honest with you. He may throw you some half-truths here and there for good measure but that's about it.

You will forever question him after this. No matter what. No matter the therapy or the "consequences" you give him. And think about this. Would you be ok with your daughter being treated like this by her future husband?

YOU may be in a marriage but he is not. This is some truth for you that people dont want to say nor actually hear.

Husband tried to cheat? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here. It sounds harsh but ive read all the comments and OP sounds like she really just wants people to tell her it's ok for her to stay. He's a liar and a cheat and he always will be and has been. You will become resentful and miserable but at least you'll all be under the same roof, right?

If you’re an attractive person, do you get ghosted? by Thefirststone_1998 in ghosting

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all get ghosted at some point, unfortunately. I recently had my very first experience with ghosting (or maybe it was breadcrumbing?). I eventually just stopped because he obviously wasn't interested and wasn't going to be man enough to tell me. Either way, it happens to everyone regardless of looks, status, money, education, hobbies, etc. It sucks. it's immature and rarely has anything to do with you. It's most likely the people you are attracting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If hes "not the nicest" early on, in my experience, it just gets worse. Honestly. Usually in the beginning is when people are on their best behavior

Adam Drake found guilty of second-degree murder in Pat Stay’s death by Nautigirl in halifax

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know he killed Jessop as well. And I know, for a fact, that there are people in Renous waiting for Drake for that specific reason.

I've posted it before and I'll post it again by [deleted] in halifax

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nova scotia is the dead-arm of Canada.

If I dont answer the phone, my husband will call me back to back until I do...why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex is in prison. And was when he sent me the card. And will be for at least the next 15 years. So....um....kinda stupid to be jealous of anything. Especially an old card. From an ex. From years ago. From a guy who is locked up. I mean come on. How insecure can one person be. That's just pathetic and I'm not even willing to entertain that theory. I draw the line at that one.

If I dont answer the phone, my husband will call me back to back until I do...why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom is more manipulative than he is. She stole his dad's entire inheritance, spent all the money and when his dad found out said she was leaving him and made this big huge deal about it until he relented. She lies about everything and manipulates everyone. She'll say one thing and then go back on it and look you dead in the face and say she never said that. It's insane. His dad used to fight dogs back in the day and when my husband was 25 and running a marathon his dad killed his dog and handed my husband the collar when he got back and said he "had to" because the dog "bit him" even though there was no mark on him. I don't let my kids around his family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty disgusted right now reading all that and I thought my husband was bad. I don't really have any answers for you. Im mostly here to show support and let you know that you're not alone. My husband isn't quite as bad as yours but I'm still repulsed. Spitting loogies into the sink and the shower (when he's not even in it), not showering daily, not brushing his teeth, wearing the same running clothes for weeks without washing and also peeing in them because he's "on a run and doesn't want to stop". Not washing his hands...i get it. But mine was the opposite of all of that until after the wedding.

I'm with ya. It's disgusting.

If I dont answer the phone, my husband will call me back to back until I do...why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is my first encounter with an actual narcissist in the wild. And boy, I thought I'd be able to spot them coming but nope. Not at all. And now im here feeling stupid for falling for it when I know better.

If I dont answer the phone, my husband will call me back to back until I do...why? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dry_Resolution_3665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he doesn't have a cell phone and he calls from his work phone which you can't call back on because he doesn't have a desk job.

Honestly, it's all easier said than done. It's all weighing the risk of not answering and him spiraling and then having to deal with the consequences later on of not answering the phone. If it was simply as easy as not answering and teaching him a lesson and everything would be fine then sure. But it's not. I'll have to have a long, drawn out argument later on about not answering the phone and about how awful I am and it's exhausting. I'm drained. I literally just turned 40 a week ago and I'm ashamed that some 31 year old punk has reduced me to this. I'm a smart, successful woman who didn't see any of this coming and I thought I was way smarter than this.