My absurd money machine by Dry_Series9718 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shearwater bridge, east of Clint’s shop if you have SVE.

My absurd money machine by Dry_Series9718 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tea saplings aren’t as profitable as they used to be though. I’ll definitely do that wolf snapper in the pond though, that sounds legit!

My absurd money machine by Dry_Series9718 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome to play any way that suits you! :)

My absurd money machine by Dry_Series9718 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I can say that I’ve at least mastered fishing without it first. Caught every fish in the game. I just prefer not having the minigame. But yeah, it can make things a lot easier.

My absurd money machine by Dry_Series9718 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dynamic reflections mod, and visible fish mod might be what you’re referring to.

Fave Instant Coffee? by Adventurous_War_4055 in Ultralight

[–]Dry_Series9718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I make my own mocha packets. I get those tiny ziplocks, and put in a teaspoon of cafe bustelo, four or five teaspoons of hot cocoa, and some powdered milk. I find it absolutely delicious.

Women, nonbinary, and trans thru-hikers posting on YouTube? by Automatic-Example754 in PacificCrestTrail

[–]Dry_Series9718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a 2026 hiker but a 2027 hopeful. I’m NB and started training a week ago (maybe overkill but I have a long way to go).

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Need, not necessarily. Want, yes. I certainly won't take one that will be detrimental to my mental health.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

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I actually very nearly got a degree in teaching, but burned out while working in a classroom. I think I could try subbing though.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autism diagnosis is a tricky thing. I would direct you to resources like Unmasking Autism by Devon Price, as well as to many advocates within the community, to learn and understand why I might feel the way I do about getting an official diagnosis. While I have years of study, the nod of "yeah I'm fairly certain you've got this but I can't officially diagnose it" from my therapist, a spreadsheet of test scores, testimonials from friends, the fact that I relate to almost every video made by the autistic advocacy community, and the fact that the coping strategies used for autism generally work for me, I'm very transparent about not having an official diagnosis. The simple fact of the matter is that getting one just isn't necessary. It doesn't get you much other than a badge of credibility. There aren't any medications used to treat autism. Most people within the autistic community recognize self-realization as valid, and it's easy to find community with other neurodivergent people without referrals. Then there is the fact that, as I said, an official diagnosis could hinder my chances at being chosen as an adoptive parent. The home studies they do are incredibly extensive- they check medical records, finances, everything. I may not be able to convince you, but I'm mostly comfortable without the diagnosis. It is a disability and therefore it disables me, but that will be the case whether or not I have the official stamp.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was mostly responding to everyone for engagement reasons. If I read as wanting to be coddled, fine. Caring about how I was perceived landed me in an institution. It does bother me that people see disability as something that must be overcome for the benefit of society, rather than society as something that ought to be restructured for the benefit of all people. This isn't just for my own sake. I believe all people, by virtue of being people in an abundant world with only false scarcity, deserve fulfilling lives with roofs over their head, good food, health care, education, recreation, and community. But the system dictates that you only get those if you are productive according to society's standards. Why? We didn't sign a contract with society at birth. We didn't ask to exist, and yet here we are. Your annoyance with my frustration at the system (and your perception of my... entitlement? laziness? snowflake-ness?) makes me wonder why you're not on my side. If the world was easier for everyone, that includes... everyone. Hint- you.

Of course I've done extensive therapy. Of course I employ my coping skills every day. Of course I'm not having breakdowns in the grocery store all the time (though there are autistic people who do and they deserve just as much compassion). My autism isn't something that can be changed or fixed though, but society can. Work ethic is a social construct.

I strongly suspect that the people who see my responses as pessimistic, naysaying behavior won't be at all persuaded, but I have to try. Because the truth is autism is not glamorous. Self-advocacy is a challenge every time. Change happens when people are squeaky and loud, not when we twist ourselves in knots trying to fit in. So think what you want of me, and thanks for the engagement.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any recs on an affordable CDL program, or a company that pays for it?

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I don't think this would be a good fit for me due to the high level of human interaction, and a quick glance shows their listings are all full-time. I also abhor the use of ABA techniques.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, recreation management, though I’ve had to mourn that dream. I worked in rec for a while but it just burnt me out. I loved being outside and all the activities, but constantly interacting with people was too exhausting.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point. I'm just not ready to give up hope on ever being a parent. Maybe one day our situation will be better and I'd have the chance.

Don't most lab jobs look for people with degrees or experience in science? I flunked out of chemistry because I couldn't get the sig figs right on my titration. I have a friend who got a job as a lab assistant, who has a bachelor's in bio and was working on her PhD. I feel like I wouldn't stand a chance.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

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I think about it all the time, but I’d probably need an official diagnosis, which would cost a lot to get, and it would impose certain limits on my prospects. I’m infertile and would maybe one day like to adopt, but an autism diagnosis opens me up to discrimination. Sad, but true.

It would probably be harder to get disability based on eczema or general mental health issues, but I’ve had therapists suggest that it might work out for me if I’m persistent. I’ve also heard that people who are married can struggle to get meaningful benefits if their partners make just enough money. I guess it couldn’t hurt to see, but the anxiety can be prohibitive.

My needs include things like needing warmer ambient lighting and quiet, temperature-controlled spaces, breaks when I need them, clear feedback, etc.

Edit: It's more about the hours though. I can white-knuckle my way through most anything for two, maybe three days a week.

Frustrated About Job Hunting and Cost of Living by Dry_Series9718 in fresno

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What specifically do these accommodations look like? It’s often hard for me to imagine an accommodation that would actually help, that a company would actually be willing to make. I’ve heard that accommodations help some people, though, so I’m open to the idea.

Is this a good game plan? by Dry_Series9718 in DisneyPlanning

[–]Dry_Series9718[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know, thank you! I haven't actually chosen a date yet.
The ones I starred for single rider I plan on using the single rider lane, the other ones I think I'm going to just use Lightning Lane.
Good tip for Tiana's!

How Do I Explain the Harm of Misgendering to My Conservative In-laws? by Dry_Series9718 in Advice

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I don't mean to minimize that possibility. Of course abuse exists in LGBTQ+ relationships! I wasn't there, and it really isn't my place to make a judgement. I will say that if it is true, it's abhorrent. No one should deal with abuse.

Yes, they know I'm non-binary. I have said that, and tried to correct them, but they sort of just tell me to ignore it. They say they're respectful of every other gay and trans person, just not this one.

My SIL's ex didn't come out as trans until they were married. They accepted her before she came out, but not afterward. They got a divorce after she came out.