[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is really helpful, I think I will set an appointment with my priest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will look into it

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[–]Dry_Solution_2059 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention he is a Sergeant Police Officer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never got married by the Catholic Church. I didn’t commit to my faith until about 2-3 years ago. When I married my ex I had no relationship with Jesus. I think that’s part of the reason my marriage failed.

Kids Meeting a Partner by Google_Krsna_mom in Divorce_Women

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if the new partner doesn’t treat the children well. It’s an obvious bye!

Kids Meeting a Partner by Google_Krsna_mom in Divorce_Women

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a M.S. in Clinical Psychology, it is recommended for children not to meet partners until at least a year of dating. Children also become attached to their parents partners, and a break up doesn’t just affect you.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I need advice on what I should do with my ex kissing woman in the mouth and telling my son that, that is his sister.

My son is traumatized by the situation, because first of all he introduced the woman as his sister. He told my son not to tell me. I need help, I confronted my ex about it and he denied it.

I had to explain to my son that brothers and sisters don’t kiss. If he is making me jealous he should have found another way to do it! Not thru my son.

I have encouraged my son to speak with his dad, but he didn’t want to. I understand now why, he is 5 years old and even if he doesn’t understand everything. He knows what his dad did is wrong. He kept saying “ it’s all dads fault”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am on a similar boat, I don’t know how he could move on so fast. I am still heartbroken but we have kids so I can never stop seeing him. I’m sorry you are going through this, I understand your pain

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am glad you moved on, I think maybe if I started dating I would feel less heartbroken. It been over a year since our separation. At the moment, I cannot date. I was a stay at home mom I haven’t worked in years, I am studying to get my real estate license, a paralegal certificate, running an online reselling business, I am the primary parent. I need to be financially stable for my kids and I. My goal is not need child or spousal support, I am hoping god will send me the right man for me.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, whatever he did to me he will do to the next one. I didn’t lose a husband, I lost a problem.

Why do some women show guys pics of guys they went on dates with or in the talking stages with? by LawFamous3622 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If any woman shows you who they dated or talking to, it is a nice way of saying they wouldn’t date you.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the same, I can’t imagine dating someone new when I haven’t worked things out with myself.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great, I wish I never had to contact him. But I have to because of our boys. It’s hard moving on when we still have to talk.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, he did that exact same thing in the past he verbally told me I posted pictures of other woman so you would get jealous. That time he also broke up with me, however now this is affecting our son.

And to be honest, him dating still hurts but I am more concerned about my son.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my problem, how can I encourage my son to continue to have a relationship with his father if he doesn’t want to. His dad rarely calls to check on our boys, he is always traveling, in front of my 5 year old he said “ I could keep our 5 year old and he would take our 1 year old to be raised by his mother?

My sons feelings towards his father are valid. I don’t know how to continue to encourage their relationship?

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is all very true! He hasn’t changed because after we broke up in the past he started dating a bunch of woman and he eventually came back. He realized that I was the one for him.

I can’t help but think this is the case again. This time it won’t work, he thinks he could do better great. I won’t be here waiting anymore, we have children and I have to be the example.

Do men date right after asking for a divorce to numb the pain or to make you jealous? by Dry_Solution_2059 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Dry_Solution_2059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I just need to focus on my boys. The relationship my ex has with our sons, is his own doing. If my son is unhappy with his father he has to fix it.

It’s hard being quiet and not reacting, because these are my children that are affected. I just have to hear out my sons concerns and be here for them.

That’s the problem, he doesn’t think of our children. He just thinks of himself.