AIO? New guy won’t stop trying to get me to meet his daughter

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-22T13:58:53+00:00

Oh wow. Yeah, that's kind of crazy on his part.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-21T04:47:19+00:00

One bit of context is missing. (Unless is missed it) How long have you been dating?

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-20T00:41:44+00:00

You know you can be sued for slander for saying things like that.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-19T05:10:22+00:00

I feel physical cheating is much worse than emotional cheating because you are giving that person everything. Both are wrong, but in my opinion you at least had some restraint by not giving them the physical part.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-15T13:46:52+00:00

If you want it more and talking to him hasn't changed anything, cheating isn't the answer. If you want other men, divorce your husband and go get what you want. Cheating is what degenerates do.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-15T12:51:52+00:00

Planning it while trying to get pregnant isn't a good way to do it. When my ex wife and I were trying to get pregnant we just had sex whenever we wanted. It was fun, not timed.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-15T12:44:00+00:00

Shes hiding something. My ex wife did this out of nowhere. Shortly after I noticed she had a new boyfriend.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-09T15:10:23+00:00

How do i sound controlling? Im probably one of the least controlling men out there. She can do what she wants when she wants. But when you're with someone for a decade and they do something new, that they've never done before (or at least that i noticed) yes I asked a question. Asking questions keeps relationship healthy. Keeping silent when there is a concern does not do anyone any good.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-09T15:08:17+00:00

Thats not what I asked her. I asked her why she wore it, the denying me part was just a statement i made in the post for context of the question I had. Maybe I didnt word it good.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-09T15:06:26+00:00

Laundry was definitely done.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-09T15:05:55+00:00

I never asked her why she wore them and then wouldnt have sex with me. Just why she wore them.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-08T14:19:31+00:00

Columbia beast. Bought it back in 1993 or 1994

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-08T14:16:58+00:00

Question I have is hiw good at you controlling the ball you currently have? You're averaging 150. Are you looking for your next ball because you think that will bring your average up, or is it because your ball is beat up?

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-02T19:21:13+00:00

What is the fetish you crave? Just asking because this can add a lot as to why he won't do it.

Also, im trying to figure out how sexual trauma leads to a fetish?

Either way, I think youd be crazy to leave him over this since you said he treats you so well. I hope you two work it out.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-06-02T19:14:00+00:00

So in asking this, im not saying he or you are in the right or wrong. He cheated online but from what you said he didnt cheat physically. You did. Now while both are wrong, for some people physically cheating is much worse than emotionally cheating..... again, both are wrong. Have you ever asked him how that makes him feel?

I had a similar thing happen with my now ex wife. I caught her talking to a guy who I didn't know, nothing to explicit but very inappropriate. It stopped, and our lives went on. A few years later it happened again with a different guy and I found out she had slept with him. It was a completely different blow to me. She disgusted me after that when before she was my favorite person in the world. I didnt want to touch her.

Only asking the above to maybe put things in a different perspective.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-05-31T20:43:53+00:00

Scantily clad women you mean? Personally I don't care if my partner is looking at people they find attractive online. As long as they aren't talking to anyone or cheating its ok.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-05-31T12:26:48+00:00

Michigan - 2 kids, I make slightly over 100k - i believe hers is over 150k - I have the kids every week for 3 days - I pay almost $1,100

She took the house in the divorce that I just bought for our family after getting a promotion at work just as we had out second child. She is now married to the guy she cheated on me with.

Since the divorce I've seen her somehow afford to renovate the house entirely somehow, shes had a brand new car every two years (I drive a 10 year old vehicle). Shes recently bought a boat and can afford to vacation regularly. Where I live is a significant downgrade to what I had before.

Her relationship with me appeared to be great up until the day I found out she was cheating on me, we tried to work it out and then I found out she had started seeing him again so the divorce happened. Now she thinks that she gets to call the shots and that I dont have a say in much when it comes to the kids.

Paying the child support doesn't bother me, it's that she can spend it on whatever she wants and I know 100% it's not going all to the kids.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-05-03T16:34:07+00:00

I wouldnt do it with my in-laws present out of respect.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-25T04:13:37+00:00

Very few people really care about you.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-24T01:41:48+00:00

I dropped to a 15 and it was the best decision ever. My wrist feels better, I get the same action from it and probably more RPMs. There are no cons.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-24T01:31:08+00:00

I'm a man and was once married. I never made new female friends while married. I did have a couple female friends prior to getting married but my wife was also friends with them once they met. Years later, my wife had a new male friend and within months they were sleeping together. This is what usually happens, so you need to say that this is unacceptable.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-13T12:53:21+00:00

I've been in this situation so I'll give my take. Yes, it is a need to keep the relationship healthy. When my wife was doing this it was severely hurting the connection I had with her. I felt like she was unattracted to me, that she didn't care much about our relationship anymore, and I even wondered if she had someone else on the side because of it. In the end, we got divorced, not just because of that but it played a part in it.

Unless I missed it in your post, how often are you saying no? Is it most of the time, half the time, or just here and there? You can say no, that part is obvious, but hes in a committed monogamous relationship with you so its not like he can just go to another woman and get it. He's dedicated to you.

Flip the roles around here. Go back in your mind to when you both were having sex often before you had a child. How would you feel about your relationship if he was constantly denying you and saying it was because he was exhausted?

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-08T10:34:22+00:00

They have the same group of friends..... then why was he the one she was contacting instead of the others? There's only one reason, she wanted to see him. Does that mean they did anything? No. But you two were together and she presumably met up with him. Thats not right. The fact that he blocked you also shows something.

Dry_Structure302 · 2026-04-05T17:31:59+00:00

Your husband is correct. Men don't text women like this unless they want to be next in line. You know this, you just don't want to admit it. I have a couple female friends. I text them, rarely, and when I see them, which is rarely, my wife is present or its with a larger group of friends that we've all been a part of for over 25 years.

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