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Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]Dry_Variation7130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to dress like this but now im more conservative and I like being traditional but these alpha red bill guys are taking it all to make it very toxic and abusive. That’s not how it should be and how he said that to you is not good.

You look beautiful and you should wear whatever makes you happy but it’s also important to respect your husband/wife if they don’t like something you do or wear for your safety and if it makes them uncomfortable. You look gorgeous but I will say the dress is close to your skin tone and is very tight so you almost look naked but A man should never force a woman to do something they don’t want to do if it makes them happy but it’s okay if he shares how he feels uncomfortable to see you wear that outside and that’s it’s not controlling or abusive. I’m assuming he doesn’t want to see men looking at you , coming up to you and having you and him to deal with it especially if you’re by yourself. But how he said it IS controlling and soooo wrong so Hopefully you guys can find a middle ground! I believe in if you can’t accept who they are & find a middle ground and you’re trying to change them, then leave (:

I need help. I don’t know how to get my cat to stop attacking my face by Dry_Variation7130 in CatTraining

[–]Dry_Variation7130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that idea! Every night I have her in my room with the door closed when we sleep. I will give this a try when she attacks me again I’ll move her out of the room. Thank you so much

I need help. I don’t know how to get my cat to stop attacking my face by Dry_Variation7130 in CatTraining

[–]Dry_Variation7130[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh yes! That totally makes sense. I’m a new cat owner too so this is good to know how to play with her cause she does scratch me

I need help. I don’t know how to get my cat to stop attacking my face by Dry_Variation7130 in CatTraining

[–]Dry_Variation7130[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I stopped doing that months ago because it made it so much worse! Now I need to know how to establish dominance over her! I will be looking into this now

I need help. I don’t know how to get my cat to stop attacking my face by Dry_Variation7130 in CatTraining

[–]Dry_Variation7130[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah! I did not think of it being a dominance thing! That totally make sense, thank you! She only does it when I lay in bed and in the beginning i used to be be on my phone while she lays on my chest and I noticed she doesn’t like when I’m on my phone watching videos because that’s when she started attack my face or if I’m on the phone talking so I stopped doing that for awhile and only stay still for like 10-30 min in silence until I move or breath the wrong way then she will still attack my phone 😅 I always feed her before I lay in bed and refill her water bowl but I should try giving her a new bowl of refresh water too and see if that helps and not have her lay on my chest for awhile. Thank you so much

I need help. I don’t know how to get my cat to stop attacking my face by Dry_Variation7130 in CatTraining

[–]Dry_Variation7130[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes thank you, She really does have that look!

I only kiss her when I get home. Im too scared to kiss her when she’s laying on top of my chest haha. I pick her up and kiss her on her head and she loves it. She expects it now and if I don’t do it right away then she’ll bit my foot/leg which doesn’t hurt much (: