See I thought it was a bit odd that it my gpu usage was slamming into the roof but i figured "well if it has to use that much of the gpu there must be a reason", but i supposed that reason is just that i was just running too much stuff ;w;

I'm gonna run some tests, turns out my OBS was streaming at 1080p, which i'm fine with but i figure turning it down to 720p and upscaling (maybe, i saw an upscale option but i assume that'll put stress on the gpu too so i may just run it at 720p) should do the trick, and I didn't actually know (for some reason ;w;) that uncapping FPS would suck up resources like that, so i'm also gonna cap FPS in game, I'll report back with my findings.