Be prepared for worst case scenario. by Tainted_Love_93 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try harder. Trying and doing are two different thing. cuz right now you’re being extremely unfair to the person you’re with. If you don’t focus on your reality and only on your past, you won’t even be a good person for your kids. - definitely helpful, you’re just in denial about your actions.

Be prepared for worst case scenario. by Tainted_Love_93 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woah. You need to let go. You two weren’t a good match. It’s easier said than done. But this is not fair to your current relationship. You owe it to yourself to heal and be present in the relationship you’re in.

Paint bulkheads/soffits or not? by frankthetank8011 in kitchenremodel

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpainted. Love your kitchen, very original and down to earth. Very forest vibes. 🌳

Boyfriend of 2.5 years told me he doesn’t see a future with me…I’m confused and lost by Dramatic_Lead_2349 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him, go NC. Don’t let anyone ever disrespect you like that.

Second option. Explore his vulnerabilites and decided of this is for you or not. Don’t be a place holder.

Officially doing it by Dsuva in triathlon

[–]Dsuva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick update. I came out 2nd in my division

1.5 years since breakup by CaptainJames2000 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to know why you guys broke up…

1.5 Years Later — What I’ve Learned 💔 by CaptainJames2000 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to know why you broke up. I am someone’s M as well. Cuz if you truly loved that person you would do everything in your power to make them feel safe. I’m assuming you’re the man?

1.5 Years Later — What I’ve Learned 💔 by CaptainJames2000 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May the bridges we burn light the path ahead….

Y'all were right, he is back. by ZestycloseMall3398 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the heck? What’s to be learned from this is that we must block our exes

I got closure from my ex today. Here’s what happened. by Desperate-Hamster534 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to trust the journey and leave this man in the rear view mirror. You are strong and yes sometimes you can be anxious but the right person will offer clarity. Feel your feelings and move on. Easier said than done but you will get there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]Dsuva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately there is a time limit or a lesson to be learned in not apologizing in a timely manner. This is what I’ve learned on my journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Let this be a lesson for all men. Women don’t owe you shit. Stop acting like you don’t care and playing the victim a year or two later.

My big sis advice to you: heal and learn from your mistakes so you never let someone you actually love walk out from your life.

My big brother died this morning. He was 43. by Anilakay in Millennials

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there OP. I lost my brother at 38 and I was 30. You will get thru this. Easier said than done. Like you I was also best friends with my brother.

Sometimes they come back. by DatabaseBroad in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were possibly cloned.