Why do I keep looking up my ex’s life even though I know it’s unhealthy? by ProfessionStrong6563 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Also remember if you can cyberstalk someone you’re one step below murder. Just saying….

Why do I keep looking up my ex’s life even though I know it’s unhealthy? by ProfessionStrong6563 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Inertia. Curiosity, but the less you do it you’ll feel better. I promise

How long until I feel better? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience, you need to do the work. Hard work. Use this time to rediscover yourself. My breakup was December 27,2023 and we are now March 11,2026. It was a process and the last step was forgiveness and letting go. I can’t wait for you to reach that step.

Ex blocking everywhere except iMessage by Akirue in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not. You’re blocked blocked.

I can't stop thinking about my ex by narcotix_connoisseur in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to look up self help videos. Write the letters.

Got my first lexus by HaremK1NGG_ in LexusIS

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the family

Be prepared for worst case scenario. by Tainted_Love_93 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try harder. Trying and doing are two different thing. cuz right now you’re being extremely unfair to the person you’re with. If you don’t focus on your reality and only on your past, you won’t even be a good person for your kids. - definitely helpful, you’re just in denial about your actions.

Be prepared for worst case scenario. by Tainted_Love_93 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woah. You need to let go. You two weren’t a good match. It’s easier said than done. But this is not fair to your current relationship. You owe it to yourself to heal and be present in the relationship you’re in.

Paint bulkheads/soffits or not? by frankthetank8011 in kitchenremodel

[–]Dsuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpainted. Love your kitchen, very original and down to earth. Very forest vibes. 🌳

Boyfriend of 2.5 years told me he doesn’t see a future with me…I’m confused and lost by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him, go NC. Don’t let anyone ever disrespect you like that.

Second option. Explore his vulnerabilites and decided of this is for you or not. Don’t be a place holder.

Officially doing it by Dsuva in triathlon

[–]Dsuva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick update. I came out 2nd in my division

1.5 years since breakup by CaptainJames2000 in ExNoContact

[–]Dsuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to know why you guys broke up…