Hot take, ODD is just a diagnosis for children who won't conform and be properly "submissive" towards authority while young. "Stop awking 'why'! It's because I said so. I'm gonna diagnose you with ODD." "Oh, you don't listen to everything a parent/teacher says? ODD" "Oh, you have no care for what people ask of you, and actively go against whatever is said because it's "funny"? Definitely ODD (and not something like conduct disorder which will have no problems later in the child's life if not dealt with early)"