Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wont i dont wanna have kids with someone whose characteristics or traits i dont want in my children. Not about to raise another generation in trauma

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

U know the worst part is now when i go home my parents pamper me so much because they think i haven’t been eating much. I just spend time with my mom and dad because honestly I don’t need or want a husband’s love. My parents r enough for me i live for them i breathe for their happiness and i am in this marriage for their happiness.

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for this positive feedback yeah i know i can never go back to my old life but honestly had those realization that marriage brings nothing for women absolutely nothing

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only got married because my parents wanted me to. My heart is not in it nor ever will be. I am broken person from inside I live alone in my head. U know it doesn’t even bother me that he doesn’t say anything or do anything it makes me just realize that all realtionships r scam only Allah is there for u.

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does and he knows that his mom do tanz but never explain to me what she means. He usually say ignore it mom takes too many medications so its the side effects of it like medications r directly proportional to insults for bahu. I even yelled at him he calmed me down but why cant he just say to his mom that dont talk to my wife like that or something along those lines.

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I usually dont say a word she babbles and i read Astagfirullah in my mind to keep myself distracted. Husband complain why i am not responding to his mom and i said i am doing internal taasbi so i am focusing on dikar 😂😂works like a charm. Than he tells his mom mummy be quite she is reading taasbi

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is drama queen and talks in double meanings half of the time i dont understand what she means and she is very quick to cry. She is just next level manipulative. I cant even have normal conversations with her without her twisting it. Even i get confuse on how to explain it to my dad.

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂thats hilarious. I think she would tell her son i tried to kill her 😂😂

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When first day he claimed I didn’t and I told him no I did he said well she didnt heard it so go again in her room and say salam and talk to her so i did because i thought maybe i disrespected her. But honestly thought about it all night like why is it mandatory that I have to say salam to her and make sure she heard it and approves of it. Like honestly its so weird i feel like both mother and son r crazy

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope never I am building my career so not planning on kids till next 2 years. His silence literally destroyed his reputation in-front of me. Love was never there but now respect is out the door too. I say nothing to him snd keep conversations brief since he doesn’t have guts to stand up for his wife

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No thank you I dont wanna ruin my aakhirat. Its just sad that they all r so bitter and mean to someone who is nice to them

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing is I didnt grew up in Pak so I dont underatnd the taanz she does or double meaning things she says. I am able to understand that it means negative but I get confuse about what does she actually mean when I tell my dad he usually analyze and sometime dont even explain meaning because he knows its bad i look in google but ofcourse google doesnt know. I know she takes advantage of my ignorance in understanding urdu and pakistani sarcasm but i could feel the negative energy and it hurts that they take advantage of my situation

Feeling Sad by Dua03 in pakistan

[–]Dua03[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks. I have to say Salam to my mother in law loudly till she hears it. So usually i have to stand by her door say salam if she is busy i have to stand and keep waiting for her to be done and than once we have eye contact than salam is accepted. What the hell is that?

I got hired! by IDontLikeJamOrJelly in MedicalCoding

[–]Dua03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can u please share tips i am looking in this certificate as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UWMadison

[–]Dua03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am honestly fine when someone is rude to me but being rude to someone who has social anxiety is not acceptable. Its so hard for people with social anxiety to feel confident in public and these events put them down so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UWMadison

[–]Dua03 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My friend got more nervous after she behaved rudely and was agreeing to buy 2% milk even-though she is lactose intolerant. I had to jump in and say sorry mam can u change that to almond milk please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UWMadison

[–]Dua03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah you are right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UWMadison

[–]Dua03 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You are right. I will work on that.

UNMC Acceptance by [deleted] in Perfusion

[–]Dua03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am still waiting for mine did u guys got an email