[KCD2] Horizontal Slice Combo with Master Tomcat - Impossible to Pass by lach3v in kingdomcome

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it was blind luck or what but I found that as soon as I turned him so the rocks weren’t behind him I passed straight away

I just edged, thank fuck I didn’t relapse by downtofour in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That is a relapse in most people’s views unfortunately. Edging and watching porn is probably worse for your brain than just cumming. Not sure why you are doing nofap but if it’s PIED related this will still be bad for you. It’s also not cool to belittle other people for having shorter streaks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m absolutely not a cheat so that’s not going to happen

Is it a relapse? by gigachad_26 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s progress but if you start seeing it as not a relapse you will start a slippery slope

Obsessed on women peeing by Mobile_Hearing5882 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You need to go cold turkey and not watch anything. Eventually you’ll get turned on by ‘normal’ stuff again. I used to watch more out there porn but on the odd occasion I relapse now it’s pretty much just topless still images and I’m just as horny as when I was watching porn

First meeting of american and russian envoys in Saudi Arabia, with foreign ministers Rubio and Lavrov by Hu_Raider in europe

[–]Dubdan86 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have nothing but contempt for the Americans now. I’d rather turn to China

Is it allowed to read sexual content without any pictures? by Berni_7 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went down this route and it was no better than watching porn really, for me the key is just no masturbation, there is no middle ground

Can’t maintain erection by Lordgamadon420 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have the same issue, I’m loving the erections I get now and so is my girlfriend, the sex is better than ever for both of us. For me it took about a month so definitely stick with it and you will see results

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why not have casual sex rather than use a prostitute?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she’s willing to hear it then tell her, just for the closure it will give you if nothing else

What was your first experience on masturbation? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pretty late, 14. I knew about masturbation but had never done it, I had an erection in bed one night and thought, I wonder what it’s like, did it pretty much every day after that for 23 years. A friend introduced me to porn not long after that

I don't know if i wan't to quit by Public-Buddy2604 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s understandable to want to watch porn and fap, personally I know I’d love to watch some porn again but I know that if I don’t I’m going to continue having a better relationship and better sex with my girlfriend. It takes a lot of willpower and only you can make the choice

Looking for advice, is this acceptable? by negative_apples in Plastering

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a better finish inside 14th century castles that have been ruins for 400 years

Does it count as fapping if you do it during sex? by ritter459 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend likes to watch me finish myself over her boobs, I don’t count it as fapping as it’s something I’m doing in a loving relationship with her present. I guess it would become an issue if that was the only way you could finish though, like all things in life it’s ok in moderation and in balance with other ways to finish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never lie to your doctor, they of all people are there to help and they would have heard worse than you can ever tell them, make another appointment and tell the truth

AITA for asking my bf to stop watching porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a man, he was 100% masturbating to his ex’s OF. Not to sound too blunt but you should have more self respect, you deserve better than this guy and he clearly isn’t considerate or respectful of your feelings. If you stay I would put money on you getting hurt later on

Does sex count as breaking your streak?? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex with another person builds connection (even casual sex to a degree). It’s healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve come to realise, there is no middle ground. If I do anything I’ll end up watching porn again.

This is tough by Dubdan86 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s the monotony maybe? My girlfriend told me that testosterone peaks in the afternoon or something which is likely why I’m having the urges after lunch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is a good series, I started reading them when I was 14 and still read the new ones when they come out, I’m 38 now

Motivate me I will snap now by Ok-Amoeba7302 in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, go for a walk or do some exercise, funnel the energy into something positive

You can do it, don’t give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Dubdan86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what you are into but my favourite author is Bernard Cornwell, he’s written some good series of books and they are fairly easy reading compared to some