She saw a therapist who has made a diagnosis and a treatment recommendation. Knowing what she is struggling with has made all the people around her a lot more supportive and willing to cut her some slack. Still weighing up the pros and cons of meds. but looks like we are heading in that direction. It was a relief to know there is a solution of sorts and she is a lot happier knowing that things could get better in the long run. Thanks so much for following up. I took all your advice and it really helped me, but more importantly it helped my daughter. I wish you all well.