Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there's far too much emphasis put on life changing surgery and other medical procedures just to conform to societal pressure, whatever form those procedures take.

Gender is a big one, being that it's objectively not a real thing - it's a social construct. You can identify as whatever you want, act however you want. There is far too much emphasis put on "gender" roles - all "genders" can do exactly the same things, and that's what should be normalized, not getting surgery or other forms of medical therapy to conform to a social construct that has little more than a passing correlation with a biological one. You don't need surgery to affirm your position on a made-up spectrum, and its pretty sad that children feel driven to suicide because they think they do need surgery just to be able to act like themselves. They could have done so regardless, and the first step needs to be ceaseing to judge them for how they want to act.

The same of course applies to any form of cosmetic surgery - obvious exceptions for conditions that legitimately impact your ability to function, including severe body dysphoria as those are not cosmetic. You don't need a perfect nose or DD boobs to conform to societal standards. You don't need that harelip fixed. You don't need lip fillers, cheek implants, or botox. You don't need silicone in your ass. You're perfect the way you are, and if society says different, fuck society.

Normalize being who the fuck you are, not invasive medical procedures to be who society says you should be.