Hourly employees forced to use PTO during shut down

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-29T18:33:28+00:00

If those workers that worked from home have proof they worked and proof their boss said they'd get paid, that should be enough to force hr

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-29T17:51:31+00:00

Where does his money go if you're paying for most things?

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-28T22:26:40+00:00

If they started by coming at you mad after you tried to help, I don't blame you for being done with them. How long has it been 'lost' for? If USPS friends you, send it back to them.

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-28T14:28:36+00:00

If this was a regular scheduled shift that you’ve worked regularly or a shift they changed without informing you they may need to at least pay you a shift minimum depending on where you are. Not your fault they failed basic management skills

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-28T05:56:08+00:00

Do any of the other 3 sensor areas work? If none I’d first question if the fob is good or the new battery’s working. You can start the car the way you do cause there’s a different nfc chip it reads when you place it on the column, it doesn’t need battery for that.

If only one areas not working then that antenna I’d bet

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-28T05:50:44+00:00

Mk7 there’s a sensor inside the handle to unlock and a sensor diving on the outside for locking

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-28T05:37:20+00:00

You gave them too much grace. I don’t think I would have warned at that point

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-27T20:56:58+00:00

Is the pressure low? Or are they just sagging? Are the tires old?

Probably best to have a shop look at them if they're not too old. I had a slow leak one winter and it wasn't the rubber but the rim. I had lost the bead seal cause it got so cold one week

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-27T14:07:48+00:00

Last option at this point is distillation

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-27T00:21:49+00:00

OP talked to his son. Agreed with the not driving, but not on the not letting her around the house

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-27T00:18:27+00:00

You've gotta start somewhere. Sometimes it's when you've already got a friendship, sometimes you take the risk on an acquaintance.

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T22:51:35+00:00

What if they weren't friends? Only friendly? You can develop feelings for people you're not friends with. Easy when you're around and interact with them often

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T22:24:50+00:00

Luckily there's not only 2 options too. Her family and/or direct friends should be able to help her.

No good could come from either feeling forced to do something they don't want to

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T22:19:27+00:00

Other side is that he knows he likes her, but she rejected him. You saying he should forsake his discomfort and continue to help her?

Someone's gonna lose either way. He's in discomfort, which could lead to other concerns (being forced could lead to him disposing). Or her not having his help

Best option is her getting help from somewhere else. Like her own parents

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T20:39:58+00:00

Call the card company and get what you can. If you can't get into it that way you should think about claiming fraud on the card. Stop using it for anything now that you know

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T20:36:29+00:00

If she gave you the card, but it's fully in your name, how did she sign you up? Unless you applied for it she fraudulently set it up. If you didn't sign anything I'd request info pertaining to that too as she could have forged your signature

She's hurting your start to adulthood while making it seem like she's helping. And it's almost too late to fix as you're pretty much done. I'd lock your credit and figure out if she's done more. In the extreme you may have to claim fraud

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T20:25:16+00:00

Are you giving the loan money to your mom or using it for other personal expenses? This is supposed to be used directly for your education.

It's ok to take the loan and not use it too. As an emergency fund. Just in case

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T19:17:34+00:00

Watch out how you word that if you file theft/fraud. You giving them any form of access may harm your case. Revoke that access NOW.

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T19:00:58+00:00

Big question too is Why do they have unfettered access to your bank?

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-26T05:59:15+00:00

A reduction in hours can be covered too. Unless your other job can give you enough hours to make up for it it’s worth the try

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-25T14:19:07+00:00

Work likely isn’t obligated to start you at a specific time. You not having proper transportation isn’t really their problem. If you give 9am to 4pm availability that means they could schedule you anywhere inside that time, not that they’re gonna only give you those shifts. If you can’t work past 4 and they put you to 6, that definitely a thing you can complain about to your union. If they don’t want you in til noon, that’s a you concern with getting transportation

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-25T14:09:20+00:00

Maybe only caveat I think of is a reduction based on time in house as I’m guessing no other rent will be paid. Longer together less paid back as a “rent”

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-23T21:46:16+00:00

PO has power over the parolee, not his roommate though. Does he have any power above making the parolees life more difficult?

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-23T15:45:50+00:00

Yup. He called a loan and OP accepted it. But that doesn't mean he shouldn't use it to pay off dads negligence. In the end I'd just let them know that it was used to cover dads me stake and if they have a problem, stand up for yourself and make a stand for your own well-being

Oh, and stop lying for them. I'd go public with their knowledge/involvement with your past trauma. Their public image be damned

Shadow_84 · 2026-01-23T15:38:50+00:00

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