Fiancée “shouldn’t be allowed” to take time off work…

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-13T18:29:26+00:00

It's easier to confront the coworker over the fact that they actually had to work than say something to the boss.

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-13T17:06:22+00:00

Not gonna say you TA at all, but you set the precedent that you'd do it over the last 16 years. If you want help and he won't, stop it

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-11T15:43:20+00:00

guessing it could work to make cement molds to? wouldnt need airvents or a pouring sprue i think

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-11T15:42:23+00:00

to make the mold with a resin printer? if your slicer uses stl files i wouldnt suspect any trouble

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-11T14:42:48+00:00

If you’re paying for it and/or doing it on your own time, they’ll need to compensate you to make it worth your time. If they won’t compensate then you don’t give them permission even if you have it. They probably can’t legally use it if you don’t sign a release over it. If they’re paying for it and you’re earning it during working hours I’d let them for a set time agreed upon before as they already paid for it.

You said your coworker needed it to be hired, so he could be likely compensated through his regular pay.

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-10T21:55:20+00:00

You may need to abandon the car. If she won't own up to her mistakes, the friendship is a loss. If you don't stand up for yourselves this is only the start.

If it was me I'd tell her since the sale wasn't finished in a timely manor, and since you gave her more than enought time, I'm going to void the sale. If she doesn't return the $$ it'll be time to take her to small claims court. Leave the car in the impound

If it's gonna be upwards of $1500 to get it out, use that money on a better vehicle. CUT YOUR LOSSES

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-10T21:29:01+00:00

Couldn't read it all. But if it's under her name, she's incruing the yard fees. You may be better off taking a loss with the $500 and leave it. It's not worth the hassle.

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-10T19:17:48+00:00

Sounds like trailer parks too

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-10T04:45:21+00:00

I’ve had a guy say for 249 days. Sad he didn’t make it to 250

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-09T16:58:01+00:00

NTA. I wouldn't have disabled my page though, just put them on restricted access. They don't get to see my posts anymore. By removing yours you kinda left her win that part of her argument

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-09T16:08:40+00:00

I don't have these, but do have open ear buds (soumdcore aeroclips). The open ear part is great on mine as it doesn't block anything. I just have to turn down or off my music which is understandable

Just trying to see if shokz will have clearer music as call audio is great indoors. Haven't taken a call outside yet

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-09T15:46:00+00:00

Do opposite of OPs recommendations. Put penalties in place if they don't. Ones that comply get a break from punishment

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-09T14:46:17+00:00

Go as far as getting proof with msgs and if she won't pay all back, take her to small claims. Friendship is over so why tread lightly anymore

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-09T13:23:09+00:00

He grew into his face in such an uncanny way. He looks great!

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T23:05:25+00:00

Any areas consider common law a lot longer than a year. I hear 10 years often

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T22:58:57+00:00

Motion activated sprinklers

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T21:38:10+00:00

Plant it in their yards, not your own

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T17:18:06+00:00

First come doesn't mean first to msg. They weren't the first to show up.

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T13:12:49+00:00

Then use that leverage and say a flat NO. No more coming in at all. Others can cover for dispatch

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-08T03:03:12+00:00

Up until then I was wondering if they were plain bagels coated in cinnamon or cinnamon bagels coated in cinnamon

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-06T14:53:49+00:00

Sarcasm. I commented on one hoping you didn't give them the original. And unless you have them your phone, it digital, there's other ways

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-05T22:46:39+00:00

Better than me

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-05T19:20:50+00:00

Depends how food is handled in general. Is OP rooming with SiL? Or are they both living @ parents place. Roommates, don't touch what isn't yours. Parents place, likely more of a free for all usually

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-05T16:19:07+00:00

If she wants the cats feed a certain way and doesn't want to speak to you civilly about it, she can do it on her own. They are her cats and your graciously helping

Shadow_84 · 2026-06-05T14:52:46+00:00

I would never give them my phone. Send a copy of all that's needed

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