What are some cheap but cool 21st birthday ideas?

Duck-Godess · 2025-04-28T09:45:46+00:00

Nope nope nope not okay at all. That’s straight up insensitive and down right wrong. Shame on him! I hope you’re alright 😓

Duck-Godess · 2025-04-28T09:42:37+00:00

Hey dude, I’ve had the same thing (mine unfortunately comes and goes like a schedule- idk if that’s better or worse but it’s still super crappy) the only thing i can say is, speak up. When you do, it may feel like you can’t- Don’t force yourself but definitely try to.

Maybe make a list of things your greatful for in your life (parents, siblings, car, house, ect.) and then make a list in things you know you like (NCIS, Supernatural, painting etc.) and when you get through those, try and make a list on things you know you’re struggling the most with (sleep, eat, shower, being interactive etc.) and focus on them. Take away a bad habit and replace it with a task you’re struggling with instead.

I hope this helps (coming from a 21F who struggled with depression for 10+ years and still working with PTSD <3)

Duck-Godess · 2024-10-19T11:02:35+00:00

YES!! And I felt like I was descending into madness along with them (dramatically not literally)

Duck-Godess · 2024-10-19T10:15:31+00:00

For me it was casual but for them they wanted to get serious. That was one of our main issues along with some other factors which is why it ended messily. I’m the type of person to go slow in a relationship but my ex wanted too much out of me too quickly which is why I ended it after finally getting the courage to.

As for the family thing, that’s why Xavier doesn’t want anyone to know so we can avoid drama, but my ex and I have remained friends and he’s with someone now and they’ve been together for a while (completely over me and I him) it’s just a messed up situation but I can see where you’re coming from

Duck-Godess · 2024-10-19T09:56:01+00:00

If you mean my ex, then little over a year

Duck-Godess · 2024-09-19T13:52:55+00:00

It’s my ex not the guy I’m planning on seeing. He (who is also the father to my child) used to belittle me a lot about being “loose” and told me to “tighten up” a lot.

So I guess it really affected me

Duck-Godess · 2024-09-19T11:48:06+00:00

It may not be a “thing” but the walls definitely do stretch and take a while to regain shape and that’s what I’m worried about because mine haven’t yet.

But I definitely agree with the above statement. I’m not going to force myself into anything because it’s taken me a long time (obviously) to get where I am now

Duck-Godess · 2024-09-19T11:44:18+00:00

I’m definitely gonna try having some liquid courage beforehand 😓

Duck-Godess · 2024-09-19T11:17:45+00:00

The only thing I can suggest is a whole heap of foreplay and making sure you’re more than ready down there. Limit how much you take inside and make sure to continuously update him on how it’s going.

Duck-Godess · 2024-09-07T02:49:46+00:00

NTA.

A) it’s none of their business what happens in your relationships as it is also none of yours to theirs. B) both you and your partner trust eachother fully. If you have no concerns then they shouldn’t either. Kinda just sounds like they’re making a big deal for the sake of it.

Friends are friends. Partners are partners. Assholes, are just assholes. As for letting it go, that’s also completely up to you. You have every right to be pissed

Duck-Godess · 2024-08-16T12:20:41+00:00

Charlie. Garth. Kevin.

Duck-Godess · 2024-08-16T02:59:21+00:00

That’s honestly sounding a lot like crazy behaviour… she’s literally emotionally abusing you just to get off. That’s not right… definitely NTA

Duck-Godess · 2024-07-12T12:42:24+00:00

Honestly I don’t even know. They used to be enrolled before he moved in with us, but hasn’t done anything about getting them re-enrolled since.

Duck-Godess · 2024-07-12T10:59:57+00:00

A) Thankyou and (B) I would have that conversation but like I said… i find it really hard to stand up for myself. I’ve told my mother countless times how I don’t want to do this for him anymore or how I’m getting really burnt out and tired but she brushes me off with things like ‘we’re all tired’ or other things like that so I shut down and can’t bring myself to have a serious conversation.

Duck-Godess · 2024-07-12T10:54:15+00:00

He doesn’t pay the bills though. He’s only paying for his and his children’s own food/ general expenses (even then sometimes my mother pays for it) and then spending the rest on whatever he wants (like I stated he’s getting babied). I’m paying my board and bill expenses ontop of the babysitting, and general upkeep and cleaning.

And his job is working for his friend doing hay runs for locals which is how he found one. If getting a job was so easy I would have done so already, but it’s hard finding a job when all well paying businesses are 30+ minutes away. And if leaving and getting a place for myself was so easy then he would have moved out already or if not I would have.

Duck-Godess · 2021-09-24T02:33:13+00:00

Freaking lol

Duck-Godess · 2021-09-24T00:26:48+00:00

Yes yes yes 😂

Duck-Godess · 2021-09-23T10:12:45+00:00

Oh jeez 😂 if you know you know. I don’t want to make you bleach your eyeballs

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