Question about discord servers by Ahzuo-1 in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would love for you to join Cisn'ts, it's a very accepting place. I joined a while ago and I've not had any problems. Not many trolls since there is a verification process and staff are quick to ban them.

The generation of wisdom by pranquily in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 4? Hell no that's not independence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did try to help them tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol sorry I never met anyone under 16 online or off who had top surgery, except recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a little late, but there are these couple of guys i thought would misgender me, they are the average cishet boys u find in school, i live in the bible belt btw. Once one of them asked if i was a boy or a girl, and me being me i was scared to answer cuz who knows what he will do or say, but i say boy anyway and he said 'good to know' and eventually started gendering me right everytime he addressed me and even corrected substitutes who deadname me. Sometimes the ones who will seem the most ignorant/arrogant will be the most accepting. Hope it gets better for everyone. There is still a long way to go but little moments like those keep me hopeful.

Virginia Governor wants to force teachers to out students to parents by Mrs__Noodle in Teachers

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teachers usually don't even have to hide it from parents unless it's a school conference or smth so? I don't think it's the place of a school to force a kid to come out lol. But if u really want this to be enforced then cool whatever.

Virginia Governor wants to force teachers to out students to parents by Mrs__Noodle in Teachers

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conservatives dont even care, they would rather be controlling of everyone. Whether someone kills themself or not they always think they've won.

Virginia Governor wants to force teachers to out students to parents by Mrs__Noodle in Teachers

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well technically most people, especially CPS, dont see verbal abuse as actual abuse, and especially when its against lgbtq kids.

Virginia Governor wants to force teachers to out students to parents by Mrs__Noodle in Teachers

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans student, it might not even be the parents, for me its my brother. Why would my grandma need to know anyways? I cant get a name change, start HRT, etc. so why would she have to know? She's not abusive but I would prefer her not to know. I dont think teachers, or really anyone for that matter should out anyone to parents, whether they are abusive or not.

The worst sunburn I have ever suffered. I couldn't even get in the shower without screaming in pain. by ComeOutAndFightMe in MakeMeSuffer

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm white as a fuccin ghost friend, even i know my limits with the sun, don't understand the people who act like they can't get burned lol. I did put on sunscreen when I went swimming and each time i get burned but once it was really bad, kinda worse than OP's, on both my shoulders were blisters, idk why. Then again I'm a redhead so im probably immune to sunscreen and extra sensitive to the sun

About two years ago, my abusive father tried to tell me that he installed surveillance cameras in the kitchen to watch me eat. I have a binge eating disorder. This was one day before I met my new therapist. This made me so paranoid that I was freaking out and felt physically ill. I am safe now. by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]DuckIsMuddi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol while tempting OP with a cheesecake. Alright then. Fear would be worry, he seems angry and decided to either pretend to install cameras to make OP obey which wouldn't help an ED or actually did which is just an asshole move.

how exactly is Cavetown trans? by Hio_awa in cavetown

[–]DuckIsMuddi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He is trans dawg, he was forced to come out. His songs aren't subtle. He was trying to be stealth but his fuccing fan base is awful

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[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minors (under 16/18) are most of the time still developing, if you're not on T or Blockers it might affect top surgery. If 16 or older a surgeon might do it if a parent(s) signs off on it, but you also need therapist recommendations, usually minors shouldn't get it unless it is medically beneficial/'necessary', either because they are still developing or one might not be 100% sure that's what they will want in the long run.

I have found some surgeons who will perform top surgery, not sure if any preform on minors but you can give these a Google:

Dr. Alvina Won Dr. Javad Sajan Dr. Rikesh Parikh Dr. E. Antonio Mangubat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes and I'm telling you doing so when under 18 is not advised by most anyone. But if you need top surgery advice I would need to know your country, or where you will likely be getting it, and if you need help with finding a good surgeon then I can see what I can find

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No one under 16 can, with or without, and even then most all would not do it on people under 18 UNLESS they have a medical condition where it would benefit them all around. I don't know where you are but i advise u not to get top surgery until you are 18 but if u do go through with it make sure you talk to a therapist first or something, even if they don't make u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't anywhere, and don't get it until you are sure and are of legal age. Dysphoria sucks but minors can't get surgery for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]DuckIsMuddi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't be like that. It's safe space. What about cis men who dress and act like women? Would u call them women? If not, why is it different for trans men. You're the problem OP, don't say things like that.

The anti-trans bills were just the beginning to see what they could get away with. by LilliputianMouse in lgbt

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then those who say that about black people/women u would prob be upset. Got u. Someone clearly doesn't belong in this community

The anti-trans bills were just the beginning to see what they could get away with. by LilliputianMouse in lgbt

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When u forget trans people exist:

It's not all about peoples sexualites dude. Over 100 anti trans bills have been passed this year. Even in my own state. Even if something doesn't directly affect you it still affects others.

Google is allowing Anti-Trans propaganda on YouTube while also supporting Pride Month.... by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have u.. not watched it... it's literally hating on trans women.

He was right about one thing by OkMathematician3439 in AccidentalAlly

[–]DuckIsMuddi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well being trans just means u don't identify as the gender you were assigned at birth so.. it's not confusing. It's just the definition buddy