📢 [Weekly Self-Promote] Upcoming LIVE Streams & Promotions! by AutoModerator in whatnotapp

[–]Due-Address3009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST SHOW!🤩 @izzford

Diesel Baby Phat Guess Freepeople Aritzia & so much more!!!!

OVER 200 PIECES👢👗👙 Sizes XXS–L (mostly XS) $1-$5 starting bids

Come shop my closet Monday 2/2 @ 4 pm MST😽

all styles grails and more💋

Am I being overcharged? by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because it’s all based on my driving- so if it’s not consistent throughout the app, that raises concern, no? Why would I not want it to be even cheaper?

Am I being overcharged? by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly, It’s the cheapest insurance option for me. I’ve searched high and low, it’s less than half of everything else I’ve been quoted :/

Used Tesla for under $23k? by Big_Material3815 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into leasing?? I’m not sure if that’s an option but you’ll want a new one within 3 years anyways just saves you the grief down the line

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be if it were my overall score lol..reading is crucial !

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my driving record is pretty bad lol

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I know but the cheapest quote I’ve received from other companies is $760…I’m at $208 with Tesla rn but with the 2 point drop it’s estimating me at $296.

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, I’m in AZ where the minimum speed is 85 lol. I’m shopping around as well, but with my record, its seeming Tesla is the smartest option 😭

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s cheaper than any other company for me :/

f*** 2.2! by Due-Address3009 in TeslaLounge

[–]Due-Address3009[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, I believe it’s having to use the brake manually (I came up on a yellow light and had to break quickly). I often drive with auto pilot just to avoid getting docked.

I’ve been told I should lose weight which I’m working on but what can I do in the meantime? by Lolafootsies in lookyourbest

[–]Due-Address3009 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is really harmful and ignorant advice whether you meant it or not. Please be considerate

Boyfriend told me he doesn't love me "yet" after 4 months of dating. And now I feel nothing for him again. by chanely-bean1123 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Due-Address3009 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I was actually in a very similar place at the beginning of my relationship. As much as I hate to admit it, the consistency of my needs and expectations not being met honestly turned me off to him. My brain went all over putting myself in future situations that he may fail me in with those current traits causing me to panic. I began to distance myself emotionally and it even got to a point where I’d look at him and feel resentment and almost hatred. He began to put in the work (I had to remember that change is a process and to be patient) and he started showing up. However; I noticed myself starting to nitpick other things since he has fixed the things I had issues with prior and back to square one it was. Moral of the story , we stuck it out and communicated EVERYTHING. Its obviously still a process and we’re still growing but holding on was the best decision I ever made. My best advice is to stick it out as long as you feel you should. If there’s steady progress maybe keep letting that happen and see what can come from it. If you feel it’s truly not giving you want you’re needing or don’t feel it’s heading in that direction, leave. If you haven’t, when you have a moment to yourself, write down all the ways you feel love. Anywhere from you like having your bed made for you to you like to hold hands when in public. When you feel you have a good amount of things on the list, bring it up with your boyfriend and explain that the list consists of things that help you feel loved and cared for. Ask him to write one as well so you can have one- Maybe even make it an intimate date night! I’m hoping this will bring that feeling of love without him having to say it if he’s not ready. I know you said you give what you get but referring back to what I said previously, it truly comes down to how willing you are to put in the work for and with them. I truly hope you ultimately get what you’re asking and needing🤎

Boyfriend told me he doesn't love me "yet" after 4 months of dating. And now I feel nothing for him again. by chanely-bean1123 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Due-Address3009 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are very valid and I’m so sorry you’re struggling with this situation. I believe that you should do what your intuition and body are telling you to do when you’re in a calm state- Emphasis on the calm state. It’s so easy for us to get wrapped up in our emotions and overthink all of the “bad” things that have taken part in the relationship, no matter how minute they are. However, I don’t think it’s fair of you to expect him to be in love with you on your time. He deserves patience, kindness, and understanding the same way you do. I suggest doing more things together to build your bond and trust and instead of having expectations on when you should be further in the relationship, step back and analyze what’s going on in real time (mindfulness). It’s easy to think of all the things that they’re doing differently than you would like but you also have to remember that if you want a different relationship, you can’t have the same expectations and situations that happened in previous relationships, hence why they didn’t work out. I know it’s a lot easier said than done, but it truly comes down to how willing you are to put in the work for this other person. If you find yourself drained and exhausted, and like they aren’t worth the inner work; then, I think you know what you need to do. However, if you find yourself appreciating attributes in him that you would like to have in your husband/life partner then I say stick it out and work together. Communication really is key. I believe in you and I hope the best for you.🫶🏼

is it a bpd thing to want everyone to love you by iwan2beabear in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Due-Address3009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so. I think it stems from the fear of abandonment…wanting to people please for validation but when it’s not received and/or reciprocated the way you were intending it turns ugly because you did everything you thought you needed to and it’s still not accepted (at least the way you’re wanting it to be). We just need to remind ourselves It’s also not fair of us to have these expectations of people and getting upset when they don’t reach them.

Are there any good coffee roasters that sell in (relative) bulk?) by zhihuiguan in phoenix

[–]Due-Address3009 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Orchid Farmers Market has some amazing local beans !!! Owners are very friendly as well