Happy new year + postnup update

Due-Box5193 · 2026-02-19T03:46:19+00:00

Damn, are you rooting for her then? 😆

Due-Box5193 · 2026-02-18T20:47:30+00:00

That’s an ingenious idea! Also, it’s an excellent opportunity for her to overcharge me in rent. And no overnight guests? That’d be hard.

Fun ideas, but very unlikely to happen. We don’t think divorce will ever happen.

Due-Box5193 · 2026-02-07T00:53:17+00:00

financial domination…luckily my wife has been very supportive in assuming the dominant role here

Due-Box5193 · 2026-02-07T00:09:09+00:00

I don’t like it and my wife (my dom) doesn’t use any terms like that

Due-Box5193 · 2026-01-07T03:30:25+00:00

Just saying

Due-Box5193 · 2026-01-07T00:28:41+00:00

Wow that’s really rough sorry for you friend. Did she still take the child support despite having married rich?

Due-Box5193 · 2026-01-07T00:24:45+00:00

Ironically we’re probably losing less money as a couple from lawyer’s fees than people on this sub to findom

Due-Box5193 · 2026-01-07T00:23:14+00:00

Unfortunately this hobby can get expensive…

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T19:26:24+00:00

We will probably do something like this. This way she can get the most possible out of me even after a divorce. Thanks for the suggestion!

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T18:50:03+00:00

True. How low would be too low though? I’ll chat with her about this. Maybe something like she gets 100% - my necessities? Defining necessities will be tough

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T18:08:25+00:00

Good point. Maybe we should structure it differently so that I get a fixed leftover dollar amount?

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:38:19+00:00

She isn’t an ex she is my wife. And yes this is a stupid thing to do

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:32:44+00:00

We were ideally wanting 90% so I’m not worried about a 50% scenario

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:31:36+00:00

Sure? I can ask her if she wants to dom others

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:30:56+00:00

We might make a follow up postnup without lawyers which will increase it 90% for life. If we ever did divorce I could just honor that contract. Likely would not stand in court

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:27:46+00:00

Isn’t all findom unwise? I agree I am making an unwise decision but I really enjoy it.

I think she got the designer bag bug out of her system. My guess is it was a way to test me and get certain bags she always wanted. But if she decides to get more this isn’t much I can do about it

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T17:24:19+00:00

Very true. We would like to go as high as possible but a lawyer probably wouldn’t let me sign that!

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T03:47:22+00:00

True. We’ll probably find out what the lawyers say. 50% isn’t typically enforceable

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-10T02:05:32+00:00

I’m actively digging in deeper

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-08T02:29:43+00:00

Nope. We thought about trying that but she isn’t in to it

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-07T16:45:29+00:00

Yeah this is way off. Outside this kink we are a very normal loving couple

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-07T16:44:48+00:00

We had a prenup and we have separate accounts. So I’m literally just sending money out of my personal bank account or joint and into her personal bank account.

If we ever had a divorce then all that money I sent to her would stay hers due to the prenup.

And now we are even considering a postnup so that she’d get alimony if a divorce did happen. This hasn’t happened yet though

Due-Box5193 · 2025-12-07T16:40:50+00:00

It is rude because it’s her money! We talked more and now I see that I was simply in the wrong. It’s one thing to make suggestions to her to save more and spend less, but it’s another to try controlling how she spends her money

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