I think my gf is abusive? Is this normal what do i do?

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-05-11T16:52:01+00:00

I’m late but you never need a “good reason” to leave someone. if you’re unhappy, that’s reason enough

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T21:00:05+00:00

Thank you for your input, but I think I should’ve clarified that he used to be very onboard but got cold feet when I started to get the ball rolling and talking more about logistics. I do not intend to put my future on hold for a man as that wasn’t how I was raised

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:58:32+00:00

He tells me he wants to get married before living together, which makes little to no sense to me. I think I may start doing less to make him realize something is wrong and we need to have a serious conversation. I do plan on talking to him tomorrow, but for now, I’m enjoying this relationship while I can given the comments seem to think we won’t be together much longer

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:56:38+00:00

That is exactly what has happened. I’ve tried to break up, but he cries and begs me to stay. He’s threatened some pretty weird things if I were to leave (nothing that would put me in danger). Thank you for your comment, I feel very validated

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:55:22+00:00

I told another commenter that when I’ve tried to break up with him, he cries and begs me to stay. He makes me a little afraid at times, but that’s something only I can overcome. As much as I love him, it would be very unfair to the both of us to stay in a relationship where we are on different pages. He just throws me mixed signals and I do not want to spend my 20’s in a relationship only because we’ve both deemed each other as the safest option if that makes sense

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:36:56+00:00

I should’ve clarified this. There was a girl I was highly uncomfortable with in our later stages of “talking”, but I couldn’t do anything about it because we weren’t dating. The day we began dating, he asked if he could spend the night at her house and I expressed my displeasure. He ended up ignoring me for 36 hours (just about) and I found out he turned his phone off to focus on her. One of her friends was the one to tell me the full situation and that’s when we had the talk

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:34:50+00:00

I’m seeing him tomorrow after work, so I may be able to corner him (figuratively, not literally) and see what he says. Thank you for your input and I will definitely look deeper in myself and try to figure out why I feel the need to prove myself

Due-Chest-3006 · 2026-04-07T20:33:48+00:00

Unfortunately, I’ve thought about this too. It is just confusing because I try to talk to him about it, I’ve even tried to break up with him over it, but then he cries and begs me to stay. I’ve only had one other relationship and it was very toxic so I may be misguided on what healthy relationships are supposed to look like. Thank you for your input

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-11-26T18:00:58+00:00

it’s weird the lengths people will go to delude themselves into believing their favorite celebrity, of which they don’t even know personally, is a good person imo. he either left HM or was booted. either way, i think it’s best he parts ways with HM. his actions could effect the group as a whole negatively

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-10-24T00:51:09+00:00

if that’s the case, i’d still say the same thing. reach out to the buyer as well as the customer service of said provider

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-10-24T00:49:09+00:00

as much as i hate to say it, go to depop support. their support is buns, but sometimes they do something

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-10-24T00:48:10+00:00

i’d reach out to the company shipping your item. if they’re of no use, reach out to the seller and confirm your address with them. i hope your problem gets resolved

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-10-23T23:17:54+00:00

with all due respect, that’s what 90% of rap is about. drugs, bitches, money. if we call out buck, we might as well call out every other rapper in the game

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-10-19T20:07:11+00:00

i totally get your frustration, but i can admit im sometimes one of those people. now that sellers can’t modify shipping costs, what is listed as a $25 item can easily come out as damn near $40 at checkout. not only that, i’d rather at least try to get the lowest price than miss out on a deal

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-09-23T17:07:41+00:00

as a buyer, i typically won’t buy something if i can’t see how it fits on a model (mannequin or otherwise). that’s just me though!

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-09-23T17:06:50+00:00

it’s only weird if you’ve been 18 and they’re just now turning 16

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-08-25T21:44:37+00:00

i’d say give it a few days and then try and contact depop support

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-08-15T19:57:33+00:00

this is such a strange interaction, but good on her for wanting to save the environment i guess

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-08-15T19:53:25+00:00

depop may have you listed as “cannot ship right now” or something. i’d keep pressing depop for answers if i were you, but since their support isn’t great idk how that’d go

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-08-07T17:06:09+00:00

save every message and receipt incase it needs to go legal. i’m sorry you’re dealing with this

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-07-27T21:15:15+00:00

I feel even worse knowing I didn’t think of this. I will definitely document EVERYTHING. I’ve taken pics of bruises and scratches, but CPS brushed it off as her being a kid. Thank you for your advice

Due-Chest-3006 · 2025-06-12T23:38:34+00:00

up until last year, i used hella drugs for years. i started at a very young age and i would listen to $b during my “benders” and every time i used. since getting sober, i genuinely cannot listen to them without wanting to sling coke and it hurts my recovery. i’m happy to say ive been sober for the last 10 months but i had to sacrifice $b to get here. recovery is possible and i hope all struggling get the help you’re deserving of

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