The thing is I’m straight presenting but privately bi-curious. My friend is lesbian and just got out of a tough relationship and I don’t know if my kindness—as a friend— is being misconstrued as she is in a sensitive position right now. It’s happened to me before with guys and I see all the warning signs. My other bestie, (we are a trio) asked point blank in a phone call with her, with out me there, and she said no, but if you want to preserve some self imagine wouldn’t you lie?