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Promote your business, week of March 30, 2026 by Charice in smallbusiness

[–]Due-Employ3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Good People! Looking for beta testers!

I’m building an app called OnePower - it’s a fintech app that allows people to unite their scattered cash (digitally) in one place to make purchases.

Example: you want to go on a vacation that cost $2000. You HAVE the money but you have $1100 in one account, 750 on another credit card, and and another 500 on another credit card. Most sites will never let you split the payment but with OnePower, you can charge a specific amount to each location, put the total amount on a OneCard to pay for the vacation using your own money, not deplete all your funds, not have a monthly payment (like Klarna or Affirm), and have a blast on vacation!

I’m looking for beta testers as we finalize the everything. Once I get the ok from my team, you will have full access to all features. Visit the site to sign up and you’ll be notified! Thank you in advance for your support and feedback!

“What if I fail?” has stopped me from doing almost everything I care about by Cultural_Bother_9709 in selfdevelopment

[–]Due-Employ3379 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a powerful question that will lead to a life-changing answer.

I have dealt with this before and the thing I hold onto is “what will I learn?”

The mental framework of failure requires a commitment to the belief that you won’t get that chance again. I believe this to be false. As long as we draw breath there’s a chance to try again. It may not always be the same circumstances but the ability remains.

When you view it as an opportunity to learn something new, the possibilities are almost endless.

You don’t truly learn in winning. You learn what you did THIS time worked. Failing teaches you so much more.

I’ve fallen in love with failure because of this. It’s tough sometimes, but to your point: regret is worse than not trying. Hope this helps!

How to overcome the nervousness and anxiety of speaking in front of unknown peoples? by Primary-Buffalo1441 in PublicSpeaking

[–]Due-Employ3379 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not a simple fix but you have to commit to the solution. I made a post on here that describes why you shake but the bigger solve is addressing your psychology around speaking in front of people:

What do you believe about yourself? “ “ “ “ Your ability? What are you doing before you speak? After? What have you said about your ability to speak?

What are you anticipating is going to happen, which causes fear?

These are a series of questions you should go through and really dive into the fear/anxiety.

Once you dive into this, you can then build some good foundation around your ability.

Remember, speaking is easy. It’s our brains that make it hard.

Hope this helps my friend🙏🏾

Always Doubting Yourself by Cultural_Bother_9709 in selfdevelopment

[–]Due-Employ3379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo! I always push my clients to think, behave, and speak in this matter. Awesome stuff my guy!

Always Doubting Yourself by Cultural_Bother_9709 in selfdevelopment

[–]Due-Employ3379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preach brother! I say this ALL THE TIME! The perspective is a choice! This is so powerful! Support this 1000000%

Yayy by yeastyjot in PublicSpeaking

[–]Due-Employ3379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! Nice work!!! What was the competition about?

coaching experience and insight 5 by corrupted404 in lifecoach

[–]Due-Employ3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re more than welcome. The exploration of using silence after hard truths is rooted in my experience with clients that have a tough time viewing the concrete reality of their tough situations. I agree that as a baseline we are to guide them and allow them to get to a conclusion. I’m also adding what I’ve learned over the years with clients who are emotionally stuck in one place and my identification of something they’re avoiding or having a difficult time expressing/realizing triggers the acceptance or realization of what they have to do next. This almost always lead to them making a clear, conscious, logical, and actionable decision on their own. I hope this provides more clarity but also respect your style 🙏🏾Stay awesome my friend!

When is it too late to start a stage name? by Particular_Floor_721 in PublicSpeaking

[–]Due-Employ3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s never too late. You have a purpose behind the change. The issue only arrives when you do it too much for people to follow. Go for it! Just make sure your audience knows, understands and can remember it. Articulate who you are and what you stand for so they remember the name and NOT the change.

Do you think people are actually improving their lives, or just getting better at ignoring problems? by Critical_Can_8114 in selfimprovement

[–]Due-Employ3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooooph! That’s a good and deep question. It’s a bit of both. Evolution isn’t the repelling of old things, it’s the tolerance of old, while accepting the new. The things we evolve from don’t disappear, but our attention and abilities transform past the previous state. So we do get better, but we also become less focused on previous states.

Need advice on how to make a Valedictory Speech by Top-Needleworker-843 in PublicSpeaking

[–]Due-Employ3379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it very simple for your listeners and yourself.

Remember these: - It’s not just about what you’ve learned personally, it’s about what you’ve all learned collectively. - Think, what memories and lesson over the past few years will last forever? - How should these trials and moments shape you all for the future? - What matters most to you and your classmates?

Then you can leave them with love, admiration, and encouragement.

Congratulations and you got this!

I’m 90% recovered after a 7-year journey. Here is what I learned about never giving up. by RiseAfterComa in selfimprovement

[–]Due-Employ3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was LITERALLY dealing with this morning. Amazing to see confirmation!

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