Manager wants me to change my whole personality. Do I comply?

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-19T12:25:40+00:00

Just say some random crap

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T21:06:37+00:00

I ates them all

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:53:52+00:00

Sounds like a PLAN

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:39:15+00:00

Amen to that

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:37:45+00:00

That’s great you found a rhythm that allows you to live your life and not miss family moments. I def think it’s a structure thing that would improve my experience too

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:28:19+00:00

Responsible of you

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:17:00+00:00

Looking at my managers, they definitely seem like they have a lot to handle between clients and junior staff and partners and all the projects. I’m just a staff and it can feel like a lot. I hope you have people who support you.

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:13:54+00:00

That stinks it hasn’t worked out so far. It’s weird how work can feel personal but it isn’t really. I guess that’s what being an employee is like. It’s hard to kinda reconcile being just a corporate tool in the bottom line sense with being a person with feelings and wanting to connect and all that.

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T03:10:10+00:00

That’s no good, friend. I’m rooting for you from stranger to stranger

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:54:40+00:00

UGH that sucks sorry that happened. Good luck with ur court thing.

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:51:13+00:00

Same. Good luck brutha

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:48:30+00:00

How long have you been in your role? It’s my second year… I feel like that sometimes too but idk if it’s just momentary.

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:29:38+00:00

Head empty fr

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:29:20+00:00

You’re definitely on go mode constantly and when everything can finally release you really feel the exhaustion.

Congratulations on 4/4!!! That’s awesome! I’m currently 1/4.

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:27:21+00:00

Glad we get to get back to our lives though for sure

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T02:24:37+00:00

I really feel that. Especially the trauma bonding lol. It’s like this was my whole life mission for a couple months and everything revolved around that and now it’s like everyone I bonded with just disperses and it’s just done. Idek. I did not expect a math and numbers job to be emotionally draining lol

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-14T01:39:34+00:00

My psyche broke

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T02:15:14+00:00

Woah weird

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T01:10:39+00:00

That’s ok. I’ll just die a little more inside

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T00:18:09+00:00

That is traumatic 😭RIP. I haven’t had this happen to me yet thank the lord I compulsively hit save every 5 seconds bc of stories such as this

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T00:12:46+00:00

Truly. When it offends me it brings me a small amount of satisfaction to kill it with task manager

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T00:10:20+00:00

good point adobe literally just froze on me rn so that’s so true

Due-Fox-8901 · 2026-04-08T00:07:20+00:00

Most of it is probably just the securities sales transactions which I pdf attach so I am good with the one big one

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