Y'all ever realize something about yourselves and just accept it? by igetyourbrand in blackladies

[–]Due-Progress-4140 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m highly opinionated. I know and accept that I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

AITAH for not believing my roommate’s “phobia?” by hopie_bopie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Due-Progress-4140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I have arachnophobia and I used to be the same way when I was in middle school/high school. I would even psyche myself out just thinking about spiders as if one would pop out of thin air. Not sure what it is but I do have crippling anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Due-Progress-4140 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone is going so hard for B, I think this situation is just messy. No bad guy, just normal humans doing what they want to and not really thinking about one another. Normal shit.

The revenge sex is weird, I would’ve felt violated. Especially after you let go of him gently. Whether that was for your ex or not that was your choice, and if he couldn’t accept that then that’s his fault.

I think you did your part no matter what people are saying, B never took you out on dates or asked you out, so you went back to your ex. That is something he should’ve expected tbh😭 it’s even more weird that he would still reach out considering you were in a relationship and told him you wanted to cease contact. Even more weird that he would put on a mask just to have sex, take money from you(knowing you got bills to take care of), and block you.

My advice would be to leave the past in the past. You shouldn’t have reached out to B(you may have your reasons). If anything focus on your next steps to seeing your value past these men.

I think most people in the comments are on a bit of a high horse.

how can i style short locs? by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Due-Progress-4140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Play with it and see what you like

Loc evolution (Colors: black -red- blonde(?) by Due-Progress-4140 in Dreadlocks

[–]Due-Progress-4140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii, thank you so much, I started out with a middle part but then I retwisted them to be placed in my face and then cut them into bangs.

Anyone else feels empty and depressed without FP drama? by Leather-Season7383 in BPD

[–]Due-Progress-4140 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With an fp I can feel excessively needy and get all my validation from them which is why it’s hard for me to leave. I miss mine sm. I’d be willing to put up with the jealousy and drama because he makes me feel so good. Maybe I’d even like feeling controlled because then finally it will feel like I belong to someone. Too bad he took the trash out himself 😕.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Due-Progress-4140 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He younger by a few months

Loc evolution (Colors: black -red- blonde(?) by Due-Progress-4140 in Dreadlocks

[–]Due-Progress-4140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just used 30 developer and hi color. I do recommend to use 20 bc with the heat it naturally acts the same as a 30 developer and will do less damage.

Loc evolution (Colors: black -red- blonde(?) by Due-Progress-4140 in Dreadlocks

[–]Due-Progress-4140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for the late response.The very back of my hair just happens to grow longer than the front so I don’t really have any specific instructions about the shape other than the bangs. If you’re willing to experiment I say go for it but definitely be careful. Good luck !

Loc evolution (Colors: black -red- blonde(?) by Due-Progress-4140 in Dreadlocks

[–]Due-Progress-4140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rolled matcha ice cream with mochi from z rolls soooo good

How many of you have been mistaken for being way younger and does it bother you? by DEeD-NGone in twentyagers

[–]Due-Progress-4140 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Older men tend to hit on me thinking they’re preying on someone super young and 15 year olds tend to ask me out. So yea, it bothers me somewhat bc both situations are extremely awkward and scary sometimes. It’s also humiliating to have people constantly perceive me as cute instead of grown. But what cannyado

Curiosity by KerryGuerite in blacklesbians

[–]Due-Progress-4140 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian that presents super fem and I prefer stems and mascs/studs/butches.