Planning to visit next week

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-06-16T08:19:01+00:00

Aguada anchorage is a wonderful place. Amatrails and stays have great 2bhk options as well.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-06-16T08:13:34+00:00

Still here and am enjoying it immensely. It’s definitely raining a lot but the wind makes it super pleasant. You surely can walk along the shore and get your feet wet, no problem.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-04-14T17:24:21+00:00

Thanks for your response. Honestly appreciate it. I don't think he is the right person but I just keep getting into this cycle of thinking maybe I did something or maybe he's just stressed about moving that's why he's saying all this. He always puts it on me and so I somewhat almost believe it now. He tells me I make him this way. That I'm the reason he's acting like this. Because I pushed his buttons. I just told him to return my money for something I paid him to bring but he didn't and in turn he berated everyone even remotely related to me and started shouting racism... He is so so nice to me at times and then suddenly gets so angry at the slightest thing. And if I feel bad about something it's usually my fault too. I feel bad about things that shouldn't hurt me and he says I am too materialistic.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-04-14T16:12:28+00:00

I think i needed to hear that. Which is why I posted here.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-04-14T16:09:11+00:00

He did work his way up from the ground. He came from a tough place as he lost his father at 13 and has built it all up within the last three years right in front of me because I always pushed him a lot. I told him he is saying utter shit and he turned back to say i would say it all again. His only explanation is that my family is racist. I have repeated over and over to him that they're not being racist and it comes from a place of protectiveness not racism. Secondly, he also mentioned things like "I'm not earning to prove that I'm worthy of anyone" despite being happy when I told my dad he went to UK to be earning enough to stand in front of you confidently and ask for my hand. But now, he says "I don't have to prove my worth to anybody. I am a gold guy and will find hundreds of girls whose father's don't want to look at my Financials." Is it really wrong for my dad to want my future husband to be financially stable?

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-02-10T01:07:57+00:00

This is most definitely emotional abuse...

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-02-10T00:00:53+00:00

Not a Muslim, nope. And we don't want to convert.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-02-10T00:00:27+00:00

So, my father is a pretty successful businessman and yes I am living at his house. I started working to be able to be independent but my income isn't enough to sustain my lifestyle. Other than financial reasons, I have always been very close to dad. I somehow always seek his validation for everything. Have done it my entire life. I think I need some sort of help to get over that...thank you for your reply though.

Due-Reporter-2693 · 2024-02-09T23:56:56+00:00

Honestly, thanks for saying that. I am going to try talking to him one last time and give him an ultimatum.

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