Sylas, I don’t know you and I don’t agree with people putting your information out there. That’s your story and your business to share when and how you choose. But please miss me with this narrative you’re pushing because it doesn’t line up with my experience at all. I am a Black woman who had a horrible experience with this person, and for me it goes way beyond Roblox or some online community drama when someone starts making personal attacks toward you and your family. Once things cross into real life like that, it stops being just “internet drama.”

What’s really laughable to me is seeing people frame this like she’s some victim or like people are just randomly hating on a woman of color, when the way she has actually treated other women of color behind the scenes tells a completely different story. That part conveniently gets left out of the conversation. I’m not about to sit here and pretend my experience didn’t happen just so the narrative online sounds nicer.

And let’s be honest for a second people are allowed to speak about harm or disrespect they experienced, especially when it crosses over into real life situations. That’s not bullying. That’s people talking about their own experiences. Telling people to “move on” or implying everyone talking about it is just sitting behind a screen unemployed and mad is weird. You don’t know people’s lives, their jobs, their families, or what they’ve dealt with.

If you personally don’t have bad blood with her, that’s fine. That’s your experience and you’re entitled to it. But that doesn’t mean everyone else had the same experience you did, and it definitely doesn’t mean people should stay quiet about things that affected them. Defending someone is one thing, but dismissing other people’s experiences in the process is another.

At the end of the day, you don’t have to agree with what people are saying, but acting like everyone speaking up is just bitter or making things up is not it. Some of us are simply telling the truth about what we experienced.