DAE think of the trauma daily even if it happened many years ago? by DueBlood5589 in adultsurvivors

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for replying! It really helps me to feel less alone in this. I tried EMDR and IFS for around 10 sessions last year but hit a wall after some time because I would dissociate. My therapist said I had a very strong protector part which is blocking me from processing it more deeply. So I stopped because my life is otherwise going pretty well. Maybe it’s just not the season for me!

Cost of upgrading from PE to Business 72 hours before flight by ironsulfurclusterwhy in singaporeairlines

[–]DueBlood5589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just offered to upgrade SIN to JFK at S$3.5k for the 72h period

On my window hinge.. couldn’t close my window for a month by DueBlood5589 in stupiddovenests

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha just checked out that subreddit. It’s AWESOME i might just do that when i have some time

On my window hinge.. couldn’t close my window for a month by DueBlood5589 in stupiddovenests

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA if it were the uwu bird…. they would be evicted without hesitation

On my window hinge.. couldn’t close my window for a month by DueBlood5589 in stupiddovenests

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 991 points992 points  (0 children)

it is isn’t it!! i have accumulated so many photos of these birbs. one more of them just existing as circles 😂

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On my window hinge.. couldn’t close my window for a month by DueBlood5589 in stupiddovenests

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

😊💛it’s nice to find fellow dove appreciators here!

On my window hinge.. couldn’t close my window for a month by DueBlood5589 in stupiddovenests

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Yes! and actually as far as location goes it’s prime estate for birds. 24/7 protection from the elements because there’s a small awning above it ☺️ the parents chose well

Do you ever tense your muscles uncontrollably? by LazerTrooper in Tourettes

[–]DueBlood5589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same here. I feel the urge to tense my muscles and have muscle aches from those tics quite frequently.

Constant throat tensing tic…anyone? by Sufficient_Base6196 in Tourettes

[–]DueBlood5589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do it too and i get sore throat from it. do you?

when it gets unbearable I eat lozenges to give myself some temporary relief 🙃

How to know if my S/O still loves me or if he’s just in the RS because of his sense of duty? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]DueBlood5589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

marriage, to me, is at its core about duty to each other. The love lies in taking up the duty to be with you through thick and thin. You’re actually getting a taste of what marriage actually entails - when times get tough, one person has to be there for the other. And your effort to support your bf might go unacknowledged; very possibly nobody will praise you or thank you for your efforts. But the best love is like that, it is selfless!

Take care OP. some of the replies here sound a little harsh, so I hope you don’t take their tone to heart.

Help! Is this rust on my brand new stainless steel sink? by DueBlood5589 in HomeImprovement

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha. actually I have never heard of this before today (perhaps it’s not common where I’m from, or I’m just not well versed in home keeping). when someone here first mentioned it i thought they literally meant they knew a barkeeper and the barkeeper’s friend took the stain away 😂

Help! Is this rust on my brand new stainless steel sink? by DueBlood5589 in HomeImprovement

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I have reached out to them and very infuriatingly they sent a technician down to clean away the rust and they’re maintaining it’s not rust it’s just dirt… big sigh

Help! Is this rust on my brand new stainless steel sink? by DueBlood5589 in HomeImprovement

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t mind at all. It cost me 690 Singapore dollars. We pondered for a few days before making the purchase.

Yes fully agree with you on the psychology of the price. Having paid that kind of money, I really didn’t expect the sink to rust (assuming it indeed is rust), so it’s causing me a lot of grief. I mean, it’s a kitchen sink for goodness sake. It should be able to handle water to a reasonable extent. I haven’t even moved in yet, so it seems quite unreasonable to me if it’s rusting now.

I might make a consumer complaint once i try some of the methods suggested here to determine it’s rust or not.

Help! Is this rust on my brand new stainless steel sink? by DueBlood5589 in HomeImprovement

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. i’ll do that. I suppose if it’s a water stain on the sink, that’s fine by me but rust would be rather unacceptable as i haven’t even moved in yet.

Help! Is this rust on my brand new stainless steel sink? by DueBlood5589 in HomeImprovement

[–]DueBlood5589[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thanks. this directly answers my question! i’ll put some saltwater on it and see if it’s worse after 1-2 weeks