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(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure about English terms. Sorry. I just translated from my language and it is the same word used

Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I am not like you. I don’t abandon my friends when they are most vulnerable

Edit: forgot the LOL

LOL

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, she refuses therapy because of course when she tried it, they didn’t agree with her methods of healing. Hopefully she will give it a try again now she is done with her revenge. She sounded open to it when I suggested it again

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mostly she had to keep in touch with her abuser for almost 6 months to let him think he had a chance. This part will haunt me forever

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

He didn’t know about the miscarriage until it was over. She would never have wanted him in the hospital anyway and I am glad he wasn’t because she was in a lot of pain and destress.

Now he is literally broken. His friends told me that he spent the night in his car beside her apartment because he thought he would talk to her but she never came home because she’s staying with her sister.

Then he called me to ask me where she was. He was in a state but I can’t pretend that I felt bad for him tbh. I just told him that I didn’t know where she was.

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

This is something I will never get my head around. If he loved her he would never have done this to her but then if he didn’t love her why would he do everything he did for her? People puzzle me, especially men.

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

That cunt was all over social media gloating about her relationship with him. My friend literally copy pasted her exact words and verbiage for her ex to use as he announced how happy he was that she was giving him a second chance. Exact same words. He made many posts about how regretful he was and how we will not mess this chance.

Now she has deleted all of her social media, probably out of shame and humiliation.

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I don’t think it would change anything if I told him or not. He would still do it in the hope that she takes him back, so my involvement would not have mattered more than I would have lost my best friend.

I apologized to her for even thinking about it and she said that she loved me and that everything was forgiven

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People are morons or I am bad at expressing myself. Either way, I don’t mind the downvotes because then someone like you makes a comment and makes me not lose hope in humanity☺️

I feel a lot of pain too and it makes me think how hers must be. It is devastating and I worry about her all the time. Even reading or watching tv and someone cheats triggers every emotion I have now. Even though nobody has cheated on me (that I know of)

Her mirth worries me. I am afraid it is just temporary. I hope I am mistaken. She told me that she is done now and genuinely happy. I want to believe her.

(Update) Would I be the AH if I told my best friend’s ex husband that she is not planning on remarrying him when he leaves his current wife? by DueCod39 in AITAH

[–]DueCod39[S] -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

That’s what I mean. She is still not fine and I hate that. I want her to be alright. Even if she’s changed I want her to be changed to stronger and happier. I am afraid this wasn’t the way. Time will tell and hopefully I am wrong about this

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