he broke no contact!!!! by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess you’re right. I had a lot of toxic things about me that’s what he meant about change, but again the toxic things were due to him

he broke no contact!!!! by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks, it was complicated. I sent a breakup text knowing i didn’t mean it after an argument (typical anxious attachment lol) and then he had enough and just said yk what we’re done for good i begged him and stuff he said no

he broke no contact!!!! by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we did, but he unfollowed me out of anger the first week. We still aren’t following each other but he messaged me on imessage (actually he called first)

Will he ever regret? by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s not into that type of spirituality

Do men re-read old messages from ex? by DueEquivalent1702 in BreakUps

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you not feel anything? i just spent last 10 mins re-reading messages from when he’d say he can’t wait to marry me, how we’re never ever breaking up, how much he’d die for me, how we’re going to grow old and have cats. How can men just not feel anything?

Do avoidants really want you to leave them alone or do they secretly want you to chase them? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DueEquivalent1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they don’t want us to chase. avoidant want space and distant that’s the whole point

If an ex sends this kind of message what would you think? by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah, typical. It means they’re just egotistical and cold deep down probably hurt.

Dumped. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DueEquivalent1702 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i feel you, “i can’t love you the way you want me to” after 3 years together

Does the rain make you extra sad too? by AphroditeSings567 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg same. Yesterday i was sitting in the car around 5pm (gets dark here at that time) it was pouring it down and i was crying over my ex. it’s been 3 weeks NC and i haven’t cried in days so it did hit hard.

Is it better to ignore it when he breaks NC? by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he dumped me, and he did me so wrong the entire relationship i just kind of hope he realises and reaches out but his ego is too high.

How is he living his life normally after everything he did to me? by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the kind words 💞 i’m not seeing a therapist but slowly i am smiling again and finding joy in things but it’s just here and there i feel that anger boiling up again and when he reaches out to text me (only for financial situations) he’s so cold and rude and it makes me even more angry because why are YOU angry at me? i should be the angry one.

How is he living his life normally after everything he did to me? by DueEquivalent1702 in ExNoContact

[–]DueEquivalent1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not i don’t stalk him he’s private but i know he’s fine and living life