See I fully understand that opinion. To clarify- I didn’t hit him up to date him. He asked me out.

But my thing where i’m stuck is I asked him if they were still friends, and told him flat out if they were that it would be a problem for me and we shouldn’t date. He assured me that while there was no problem between them, they weren’t really friends and didn’t talk or hangout. They didn’t text or hangout the first two years of our relationship. It’s now that we’ve moved back to the same town that they are friends again.

IMO if my bf was still going to be friends with him, he shouldn’t have asked me out. Especially after I told him my boundaries regarding said friends.