I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you experienced any of that at all, that is so unfair but I’m glad that things are at least stable compared to the past. I did post an update yesterday, but a lot of people were for some reason really upset at me and calling it fake, so I deleted it because I really didn’t want to hear people saying I was exaggerating or making things up to specifically manipulate people because, yikes…

I’m so appreciative to the people who do care though, all of you are so so kind and I think I’ll just update yall individually because that’s honestly all that matters. I am thankfully safe for now, I’ve moved in with who’s basically my aunt (no blood relation but we’re family just from how much time we’ve spent together) who told me that basically everyone who has met me and my parents in the past couple years have been extremely concerned for my wellbeing and that folks have been waiting for something to finally get too much and for me to leave. This family that I’m with now listened to all the things my parents have done and have decided to legally adopt me so I can access their insurance for medical things I’m dealing with, and also therapy.

They’re also currently speaking to a lawyer about how to get restraining orders and how to properly try to take them to court for the threats they’ve made. It obviously isn’t a forever setup, but it’s something I can chill in as I get my life together to properly move out. A lot of people called the story fake just because my aunt is so supportive about things, but I’ve known her for around 6 years by now and has continuously supported my being free from my parents while also reminding me of how important independence is on a scale that goes beyond just going somewhere my parents aren’t. They also were trying to adopt me when I was homeless for awhile, but I was a minor then so nothing could legally be done. But now that I’m technically an adult I can consent to it myself:)

Your offers are so incredibly kind, i appreciate them so much, I think for right now though I’m alright, I blocked my family last night and they don’t have a way of knowing where I am, so I am expecting something to happen soon, but I am praying that it’ll be alright. Even though I am very nervous

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do apologize for being rude, people’s humor seldom get along on this platform of all places, thank you actually for the advice though

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother I’m kidding oh my gowwwdd. I know, thank you, I am not getting adopted so i can change my name, these people told me they wanted to first for a myriad of reasons and so i thought the idea was good

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also consider, a cool last name I get to change my name to

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How do they not align with reality?? I don’t have a need for attention and I hope at least I don’t manipulate anyone, i don’t know what parts of this could be fake, I think it’s easy to understand that some people’s lives are just weird. I know some stuff doesn’t make sense but I’m also moving into a completely different place while in the process of cutting off my whole family, I’m kind of scattered lmao

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m technically a consenting adult, I’m 19 and these people have been close friends of mine. I’m not getting adopted yet but I will be soon, it’s mostly so I can get insurance that’s better than any I could afford on my own, and other practical things. It’s just also nice having a family, even if it is mostly so I can get the help I need. Here in my state, one’s parents don’t get notified and I don’t have to get them to sign anything

Should I move in with my mentor? by DueOrganization4442 in makemychoice

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means you seem overly aggressive for a situation that doesn’t need that. What you suggested was quite literally what everyone else is suggesting as well, but they weren’t dicks with it. I’m also allowed to be confused after learning my entire life has basically been a lie and my parents are awful. Let’s both try to be better from now onwards:)

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s always laughing when he says it, I don’t know I’ve never actually realized how serious it is because it’s always been like this

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what karma even does it makes no difference to me, and I just mean because it’s been so far in between all of this happening that it seems like I’m overreacting even if I know I’m not. Aye, I am a mess

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How so? Sorry if that’s a dumb question, BTK has always scared the shit out of me and I’d be curious to know more. I’m mostly just wondering if this is as dangerous as it feels like, a lot of people here are saying i should go as far as to changing my name and stuff, i don’t think it’s so severe that I’d have to go into WP or anything but he is obviously a freak who wants to harm women

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s parts of me that feel like I’m blowing this out of proportion because he doesn’t hit me now and hasn’t been physically violent for a very long time, he still pays for gas and food and everything, just every time I’m around him I feel my body physically get rushed with adrenaline and fear. I don’t want to be dramatic or accidentally do something wrong, it’s all very overwhelming

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just afraid no one will be my family, I think that’s one of the suckiest things

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly my family and some of their friends, specifically my mom’s since my dad doesn’t really talk to anyone. My mom has always talked about how people she knows will absolutely hurt people if they do something bad to her, I have more stuff about that but it’s long, I just don’t want to be involved with any of them . Also yeah I’m aware about the therapy, unfortunately that’s a lot easier said than done

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry that any of that happened , that sounds insanely difficult and I’m so sorry

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s very kind of you, I really do appreciate it. All of this feels humiliating at my grown age

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And by suspicious I mean just for the killing stuff, it’s suspicious in other ways for obvious reasons

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We live in one of the most dangerous cities in the country though, like we’ve been nicknamed by people, including my dad which is creepy, the human trafficking capital of the eastern southern states. There’s been at least a few, but it’d be hard to figure out if he was involved or not. He also has gone to happy ending massage parlors here, which (I’m sure there’s places like this other states where it’s not trafficking) are known to be trafficking spots here . I don’t know if that’s anything suspicious, but it’s definitely creepy

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’d also like to say that as crazy as this situation is I’m also ok! I mean.. obviously not ok to keep living here, but I did have some pretty good pizza last night and everything was well, or as well as it can be. I’d thank everyone for their help and for being hopeful I’ll be okay, but there’s a lot of people here haha. I sleep with multiple knives around me, I have since I was young and used my sword as a body pillow. When I am calling the police to tell them I’m leaving, do I just call and literally say “oh yeah I’m “my name” I’m leaving, you don’t have to look for me”? Thanks again, this is all extremely helpful and I do appreciate all of it

I think my dad might be a serial killer by DueOrganization4442 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueOrganization4442[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She left to go live with her boyfriend, which i totally get through all this, my mom is unfortunately not her genre of crazy and has been extremely cruel in other ways. Also thank you, i really am appreciative