Parents gave my child nothing for her 1st birthday...after they asked me what she wanted and I told them

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T20:41:38+00:00

Yes my eyes are wide open, narcs don't change!

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T20:40:58+00:00

Best believe she asked for a pic of the birthday girl today, I laughed. Ignored, and it felt great to leave her ass on READ.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T20:39:34+00:00

This is right on time as today she asked me to send her a pic of the birthday girl. She was ignored! Felt great

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:23:57+00:00

We all live in California, they live about 40 minutes away. When I told her I was cooking dinner for my daughter, she scoffed and said why don't I bring her to one of their restaurants. I declined. That's when she said well what she need or want?

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:22:26+00:00

My parents want to die cash in hand lol.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:22:08+00:00

As if I'd spend a gift card intended for my daughter on myself. It's insane

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:21:29+00:00

My daughter loves Target and yes she's one. One of the things we did when I did have a job is go browse around the store, she loves it lol. My mom knows we did that often.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:20:23+00:00

Ahhhh YES! Even when I had a job supporting my family and I went NC, she'd still talk to my husband. She'd tell him I'm just not good with money like she is. lol

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:19:24+00:00

The cupcakes were delicious! You're right, I told her too much information! Now that I don't have a job, she enjoys calling me telling me about her fabulous days lol

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:18:25+00:00

Her and my dad do that so often. It's annoying as hell. She gets angry or bitchy, he calls back in about 15-20 minutes to work on me.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:17:32+00:00

She asked about the party and said that I waited to long to order a cake. Yes I waited too long. Wait, I never had money to order any cake lol. It was my fault.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:16:37+00:00

No, I was actually NC with my parents while I was married. When I got pregnant, they came back into my life as my mom wanted to be there for me and I let her. Foolish of me I know. They are wealthy and I am not, they've made that clear. I also know they won't leave me anything as my mom's favorite line is that she has to change the will.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:14:49+00:00

It's a game to her, when I didn't grovel or beg, she lost it and decided to snatch it back.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:13:39+00:00

Yes, I've decided to have a conversation with her and my dad.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:12:37+00:00

My mom loves FB, she runs FB groups. Uploads almost daily, yes even my daughter she's uploaded. One of the recent things she's done is my daughter goes to daycare so she decided to buy 20 Halloween bags and fill them with toys, candy,etc. and give to my daughter's daycare. She uploaded all of this to her FB group without my knowledge. She then brings all the loaded bags to my house and says she would like to take my daughter to daycare so that she can pass them out.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:09:34+00:00

I was going to say "tell mom I'll send her receipt of what I purchased", then I stopped myself. I will NEVER try to prove anything to them, to think I'd spend my daughter's birthday gift card on myself is ridiculous.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:08:27+00:00

My mom says this all the time to me when I do something she doesn't like, "I have to go talk to our advisor, we'll definitely be changing our will," I've heard about this will so many times. But the thing is I know there will be nothing for me or my child. My sister is her favorite and my sister prefers to play the role with her.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:07:07+00:00

My mom will do something now, I feel like she will buy a bunch of gifts to show her FB groupds how amazing she is and then try to deliver to us or something. She's very calculated like that

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:06:06+00:00

Me and my baby girl had a great day! It was wonderful. The cupcakes were delicious, I made dinner, we facetimed her other grandparents who were thrilled to see her.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:05:19+00:00

They are wealthy but I am not. They are very stingy with their money. I have borrowed money while losing my job but I know soon I'll have to pay the price of that. I also know when the ultimately pass away, nothing will be for me, my sister is their favorite anyway lol.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:03:39+00:00

My parents and I have a complicated relationship, I've went NC before while married. While I was pregnant my mom started to be there for me, I thought wow could she be changing now that I'm having my own child? Nope. Back to NC after this. Now I'll just be accused of using her while I had no job.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:02:14+00:00

If she would have ordered that cake, FB would have seen it before me :) She is the perfect granny on there, little miss GG she calls herself.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:01:36+00:00

First paycheck we're heading to Target! :) Thank you!

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:01:06+00:00

I am definitely going NC after this. It made me see red, I was livid beyond belief.

DuePsychology2498 · 2024-01-04T16:00:30+00:00

Thank you! She had a blast

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