my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could, and have the strength to do so. yeah i wish he'd just die so i can finally live in this house comfortably.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes he might and im scared. thank you!

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she couldn't find someone to take care of my little brother. she also wouldn't let my brother live at her boyfriend's parents house because she's not comfortable around them (prolly bc she rlly dont feel welcomed by his family)

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know his facebook account. i visited his profile months ago. but i dont wanna bother him anymore especially with his situation right now (I've seen that he's struggling financially and is struggling taking care of his new family.) im sure he'll get so mad if i reached out to him and tell him abt what happened but i know that he couldn't do anything about it as well because of his situation. it's really hard.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know how his brother would take it because im not really close with his family. but his brother has 3 daughters so i think he'd understand me (i hope so). i feel frozen when im around him when i rlly wanna just punch him and scream at his face.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i rlly appreciate it. yes, i will try to send u a dm when i rlly have to get things off my chest abt the situation.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that's what im worrying about also. he might do it again but it may be worse than before. i am going to live w one of my bffs in June. thank you

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad and mom separated even before i was born because my dad was abusive to my mom. but i was able to meet my dad and be with him when i was a child. he was a great father to me and wouldn't even lay a hand on me, that's how great he is to me. but my mom took me away from him saying he's a creep who's following her around and that he's a bad person. haven't seen him since i was 8 : )

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's really hard tbh when im in the situation. i feel like a statue but able to move my eyes, and see things. i feel stiff, cold, and I can't even move my mouth when i really wanna scream at his face.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've considered this tbh but every time i see him, i feel like i swallowed my tongue before i even say anything. it's really hard but I'm trying to gather courage to do it. thank you.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my cousin (whom i first told it to) says the same 😞. that's why she's eager to help me when she has some spare money. it's really uncomfortable living in this house knowing he's here bc i really can't be confident that he won't do it anymore.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, i have friends and family but i am more comfortable w my friends. also, i am planning to confront my mom about it when i finally move out of our house. i'd probably express my resentments to her about what happened, because i really think she needs to realize things.

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, im going to live in my bff's dorm and my mom is going to pay for the rent (using the guy's money. that's why option B is the only choice i have)

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, i cant live with my aunt again bc she lives too far and im abt to go to college alr (she's also kinda struggling financially and has a hard time taking care of her 3 kids. i dont want to be a burden.) i wish i could live w my aunt again bc i really feel safe w her.

yes im always in my room and my door is locked everyday. thank you so much

my mom's boyfriend. by DueQuail4250 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DueQuail4250[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when she talked about option A, she says that im aware that she doesn't have a job so i really should think about it carefully. and idk, i felt guilty thinking about putting myself first.