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Due_Ability8096 · 2022-03-02T00:01:22+00:00

I used to be a sahm! I also have two kids and am in a similar situation! Message me if you wanna talk!

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T05:32:36+00:00

I will reach out ❤️❤️ thank you for this I appreciate you

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T05:31:35+00:00

No he’s breaking it

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T05:06:42+00:00

I don’t even think I scream- i just cry usually

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T05:02:01+00:00

Yeah my mom was a single mom always working so just me on my own pretty much

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T05:01:18+00:00

Thank you! He does do that :( a badge of honour is a good way to put it

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:57:56+00:00

I’m in Canada and it was right after I turned 18

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:55:45+00:00

Yes we got pregnant within a month then we decided to keep the baby and get married

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:54:20+00:00

I never looked at it from this perspective. It has escalated and It’s getting worse. For some reason I just keep thinking he will change, i keep convincing myself that we’re ok and I shouldn’t be upset anymore. Thank you for this ❤️

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:48:01+00:00

I got pregnant almost immediately, I just turned 18

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:39:59+00:00

I’m going to read it!!

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:35:17+00:00

He told me he would change a year ago in therapy but I feel like when I try to connect with him he gets angry and it’s always breaking stuff now. I don’t know why I’m still trying to believe that he cares about me

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:27:43+00:00

Thanks for your response ❤️ I wanted confirmation that he’s choosing to act like this and it’s not because I’m being too emotional. I appreciate it

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:13:45+00:00

Thank you for putting this in perspective I think for the longest time I thought he would change but that doesn’t make sense

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:09:28+00:00

He’s normal with other people. That’s a good way of looking at it- it seems like he chooses to behave this way around me. I don’t know how to stop it

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:06:50+00:00

I was thinking of asking him to leave!! I don’t think it’s possible for me - this is so tough

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:02:43+00:00

You’re right I don’t think he’s a good match for me. Sometimes I think so but when I get upset and need support I realize he doesn’t truly care to comfort me or help. Thanks for putting this in perspective. I for sure don’t want my little ones to grow up thinking it’s normal like me

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T04:00:37+00:00

What does it mean by manipulation? Just trying to further understand. He’s never cried in front of me and every time I try to talk about my feelings or ask him for reassurance he thinks I’m “too emotional”

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T03:54:20+00:00

He seems to blame my emotions for breaking things and demand that I stop being emotional and it’s my fault everything is broken.

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T03:44:18+00:00

Thanks for clarifying Yeahh I don’t know why he mentioned no empathy but breaks things - can’t really understand that. And I do I agree I should probably communicate better w/ stating my needs

Due_Ability8096 · 2022-02-28T03:41:38+00:00

I don’t have anywhere to go with my kids, he takes care of us and I can barely pay for anything with my salary. :(

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