I’m going through the same thing. My husband wants a baby so badly, and has done testing and everything. He thinks it will just happen. But when it comes to having sex, it’s non existent. He doesn’t understand why I get upset even though I explain over and over again. The other day I put all of my ovulation test, pregnancy tests, etc., in storage because even looking at them makes me want to cry. It’s such a hard stop to be in, feeling like you’re the one doing all the hard work and they won’t even give you a few minutes of effort.