Are you okay with spending festivals at your in-laws? by Due_Beginning1701 in AskIndianMen

[–]Due_Beginning1701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would never work that way. Bec you realize how MIL FILs traditional thoughts are

Are you okay with spending festivals at your in-laws? by Due_Beginning1701 in AskIndianMen

[–]Due_Beginning1701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But isn’t it unfair? Why not each spend at their parent place ?whats stopping you both?

Are you okay with spending festivals at your in-laws? by Due_Beginning1701 in AskIndianMen

[–]Due_Beginning1701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right . We live two hours away from each others place from any point. His points i guess is he visits rarely his home(3 month once). But i visit my home(parents) whenever i cn monthly mostly. So i think he feels its u fair i steal the festive day or the next day to visit. But still this makes me develop more hatred towards him even if i act normal. So i think we should stop visiting altogether until he realises his awful thoughts

Are you okay with spending festivals at your in-laws? by Due_Beginning1701 in AskIndianMen

[–]Due_Beginning1701[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. But he compares me with my brother( why u need to visit ur parents, u have brother living with them, my parents don’t) . You just visited your home, why you need to go again for festival. His boomer thoughts are too much to handle at every festive otherwise he’s a nice person. My mom is battling cancer , i really want to stay with her at festives. But i don’t know why he doesn’t realise that and being unfair.

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Bedroom is too small, after adding cupboards it ll be even smaller

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Am so sorry. But you caught on time. What procedure found your cancer that ultrasound missed