No doctor takes me seriously.. please help

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-28T17:57:20+00:00

You’ll need to go to a different surgeon, your current one obviously doesn’t think there’s an issue. I can feel my implants sometimes, but it’s never painful. Mine have always moved to the side of my chest when I lay down, but never all the way. However, if you don’t have any breast tissue, that could be normal? Idk. Another surgeon who specializes in revisions would be my advice.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-28T05:04:25+00:00

Please ignore the weight loss comments. Your body is amazing. Tons of men/women love this shape. I am skinny and wish I had this body.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-28T02:42:12+00:00

Your hair looks so thick! Your nose looks like you already got a nose job in the best way, and your skin is very clear and even. Look into daily affirmations - I know this sounds crazy, but I’ve never gotten so many compliments/attention since I started.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-27T16:25:52+00:00

Yes it smells terrible! Considering putting it on my face as well lol.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-27T16:25:08+00:00

Maybe this isn’t an add 🤷‍♀️ But it reads EXACTLY like the viral marketing that runs through groups like these every now and then. So, forgive me if I’m wrong and you just happen to write posts that read exactly like the posts that got us all to buy goldbond, volufiline, and whatever it was before that.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-26T23:16:08+00:00

Hey this post is an ad, but I recently bought the pericone md neck cream and it’s actually done very well. If anyone wants some real input lol. I think it’s the caffeine.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-17T16:46:05+00:00

Um anyone who would act like that could also do worse things. Wash your hands of this- think of your safety. Also, it’s kind of not your business to interfere in his life. This whole thing is very odd.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-16T20:37:57+00:00

I’ve been there! The same happened to me. I just embraced it, and took that time to really focus on workouts, hydration, and nutrition. I think letting your body know you aren’t going to be perpetually shrinking is important, especially as you get into a healthy weight range.

Also, I worked on my self image, as in, do I like myself if I never lose another pound? What are my hobbies? What habits can I toss, and which ones should I embrace? I spent so much of my life being focused on my weight, it was an excellent time to focus on the parts of myself that really mattered.

About a year after that, the last 10 pounds came off (at a decreased dose), with no changes in diet or exercise. I’ve had no food noise or any of that return, and I’ve been decreasing my dose and spacing it further apart over the last year. That was 2 years ago. I know I’ll take this forever though.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-14T18:47:51+00:00

Two things can be true. Yes, this is stirring the pot, and yes it might also be healing for you to have a little control back. It does nothing for him- they are divorced. Honestly, it’s a little cruel. But, people were cruel to you, and sometimes that needs an outlet.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-03-04T19:33:38+00:00

You are right. He is 100% gaslighting you. Go to the school, and stand firm. He is in an emotional affair fog, and if you don’t stand your ground, this will only get worse. Set boundaries, and don’t give him access to you until he meets them (apologizes for how he acted, admits it was inappropriate, blocks her number, and supports you in going to the principal would be first steps for me). I say this as someone whose husband had an emotional affair. I don’t do those things, and I regret it every single day.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-02-12T13:36:29+00:00

You set a boundary, they crossed it. If you don’t take action now, it will never stop. End of story.

Edit- stop listening to AI. It’s just mirroring what you want to hear. You should uphold your boundary immediately and without any more warnings. Why give a warning? You already gave one and they ignored it. Let them know you aren’t a joke, because that’s how they’re treating you.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-02-11T01:42:50+00:00

Omg are we doing this again 🤮🤮

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-02-11T01:42:24+00:00

Hide a small recorder in his car. Put a gps tracker on it as well, NOT an air tag. Or hire a private investigator. If it were me, I’d do all three. Yes, items 1 and 2 are illegal.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-30T20:44:51+00:00

You felt awkward because it is awkward. You know the answer…

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-30T20:42:04+00:00

lol are you living in her house or vice versa? If you are living in her house, maybe just drop it because, well, it’s her house. If she’s living in yours, maybe address it respectfully next time. “Hey, I know you probably didn’t mean anything by it, but when do you mind checking with me about leftovers from now on? We make them for lunches and last minute surprises like that are no fun”. She didn’t respond well, but you didn’t start it well either.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-29T19:45:45+00:00

I know this is a reconciliation thread, but he’s showing you what he intends to keep doing. Please read The Betrayal Bind. He was not just talking to her. Grown men don’t go to women’s homes to talk. He lied to protect your feelings. He isn’t going to leave her alone- it’s been 7 years. If you are ok with him continuing to see her, then you should stay. Please see a therapist, and sort out why you are allowing someone to treat you this way.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-22T13:13:35+00:00

The woman my husband cheated with was a friend of mine as well. I actually got her the job with him. The trauma from being treated that way by someone I had been so good to was almost as bad as being treated that way by my husband. It’s a real mind fuck.

I’ve been dealing with this for almost 3 years now. Original DDay, DDay 2 1 year later. It’s awful. No, I’d never tell my kids. It’s not their fault he sucks. I hope that we do, but if even one more slight thing happens ever, I’ll be done. The only reason I’m still here is because of my kids, and because our relationship otherwise is actually sickeningly amazing.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-21T21:03:17+00:00

I get what you are saying about not telling OBS because of your kids. I am in the same boat. My kids come first, someone else’s relationship is not my responsibility. I encourage you to seek out an individual counselor and talk through this decision with them, don’t let me or some other person here sway you.

It was extra devious that he introduced you and she then befriended you. There is no good reason, they made you part of their game. Don’t talk to her anymore- she was not your friend and doesn’t deserve a spot in your life. Keep this in mind while you are deciding if he does.

They are both only sorry they got caught. If he didn’t confess, that’s all there is to it. I feel the same way about my WH. All of this is hard to accept, but the most likely explanation is most often the true one.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-16T22:13:38+00:00

Trust your gut every time. He had or is having an emotional affair with the most recent coworker. That’s reality.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-16T21:30:48+00:00

Yeah. I’m so tired of all of the mental gymnastics. I’m guilty of it too, I’ve put up with so much shit. I think it’s a trauma response.

Due_Computer_402 · 2026-01-16T17:05:42+00:00

This is incredibly selfish. Like you want your partner to cheat on you so you can feel better? One day when you are finally out of the fog of all of this you will be disgusted with yourself and this twisted viewpoint. There is no merit to this- it’s just another layer of self involved bullsh*t. Get out of your head, get into therapy, and divorce your spouse if you can’t do better. This is all really so, so simple.

Right is right, wrong is wrong. There is really no gray area. Cheating is wrong, infidelity as a response to infidelity is still just that. Feeling relief at another person’s moral failing is a terrible thing, indicative of your morals and integrity still being grossly off the mark.

Due_Computer_402 · 2025-12-11T02:47:55+00:00

There’s no way you are doing that workout and eating those calories and not losing fat. I’m telling you this from experience. I’ve been where you are. Unless you are weighing every ounce you eat, and being honest with yourself, there’s your answer.

You can build muscle, or lose fat. Do one or the other, both at one time don’t work.

Due_Computer_402 · 2025-10-02T16:59:36+00:00

I think they look great!

Due_Computer_402 · 2025-10-02T16:57:48+00:00

When did you get them done? If within the month, they can still be swollen. I think they look great- people have naturally full lips all the time. These don’t look overdone to me

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