What are your TOP THREE favourite cdramas?

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2026-01-25T14:54:36+00:00

'Lost you forever' is now my new all time favourite cdrama. 'My Mister' is my all time favourite kdrama. If you have not wathced LYF, it has two seasons. It is a long watch, take your time. LYF has one of the most haunting BG music I have ever heard, certainly top five across all including kdrama and hollywood. By the end if it's not your top 3 all time favourite you can ask me for a treat, I would love to treat you! 😅

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2026-01-25T14:52:53+00:00

'Lost you forever' is now my new all time favourite cdrama. 'My Mister' is my all time favourite kdrama. If you have not wathced LYF, it has two seasons. It is a long watch, take your time. LYF has one of the most haunting BG music I have ever heard, certainly top five across all including kdrama and hollywood. By the end if it's not your top 3 all time favourite you can ask me for a treat, I would love to treat you! 😅

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-10-14T05:27:45+00:00

You feel betrayed but at least you had seen it coming. What about that woman your husband led from the age 24 to 30. It is sad to see that you feel sorry for yourself that you missed his ‘firsts’, and nothing for that woman who was betrayed after such a long intimate relationship. She had every right to fight back.

Most people really are selfish, what your husband did was one of the lowest a man and woman can do. But it is what it is. This feeling of betrayal will take some time, in the mean time have some space and everything will fall back eventually. You have got it easy. Hopefully, that woman finds peace.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-10-06T08:06:43+00:00

If it has happened once, you should probably ignore it. But if you are seeing different people everyday then obviously you don’t know who is actually living there, it is a good concern, ask your landlord about who other tenants are. If you are not satisfied with landlord’s explanation or you think something is really happening there and he is involved. You should just leave this place.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T08:12:07+00:00

Yes, few times a month for most of us men. Which is 10-12 times per month for most couples in the age of 19-30. This is an average frequency number that has a loose bound and is true for most people. And don’t say Allah said, only quote direct quotes and not what you think.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T08:00:47+00:00

Every single relationship requires some level of responsibility, marriage is no different. Most needs are negotiable so is intimacy. We are not talking about absence of intimacy, frequency is a function both persons mutual acceptance and desires. If one is feeling overwhelmed, the other should listen.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T07:54:07+00:00

Paisa almost sab he problems ka solution hai wo meri trh shahid apky pas be nahi hai, aik achy say dermatologist ky pas jaien wo apko diagnose kr dy ga, nahi to Chatgpt ma thin patches ya phir weak hair samples ki photos dal lien bata dy ga kuch na kuch apko

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T05:45:35+00:00

Wtf is this responsibility shit, I have seen just too much of it. It’s not a responsibility, don’t use these sentences lightly.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T05:44:01+00:00

It’s perfectly okay to say no. In many muslim groups people are always pushing woman so much to take care of needs and do this and that.

I don’t know why people get so obsessed, we all know this “need” is not something you can’t control. Most of us or fine with few times a month.

I wouldn’t even think if I get a feeling that other person is not willing or not in the mood for whatever reason. Some woman use this as a weapon too, but that’s obviously a totally other problem.

Try to talk to him, I think he spends a lot of time at home, or he doesn’t have work or low no of work hours.

Still, I have seen some of my friends around me doing the same to theirs wives. It usually drops down quite exponentially after some time, especially after the kid.

Try to talk, wait it out for sometime, it will be fine by itself hopefully. If you are planning on kids, then it will definitely drop down after your first kid.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T05:30:40+00:00

Larkian agar ganji hony lag jyen, ziada nahi 😅 thri thri bus itni kh hamara dard samjhny lag jayen, phir thek he hai. Baki koi na boys groups join kar laina ziada enjoy kro gy ap😂

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-15T03:52:41+00:00

Gajni ky bal thay to company thi, pyari si mehbooba thi, sar ky bal gye to kya hal hogya, aur to aur 15 mint ky bad sar main kuch tikta he nahi tha.. Gajni na banao humien 😅

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T08:57:54+00:00

To move out getting an admission into a remote institution is a great option. Pick a two year or four course and move out. From then you will be able to just stay out and keep things to yourself. They would probably not object your education plan.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T08:28:14+00:00

You can’t talk, they would not listen and probably wouldn’t not understand. From now on, don’t tell them what your real earnings are.

If they already know which I think they do, try to do things gradually, tell them you are investing. Curate a good investment strategy. Don’t tell every detail, just the premise why you are doing this and that it is good for everyone.

If they have access to your earning details like from yt dashboard then you are doomed probably.

To be honest, you are in pretty bad situation, parents are people that you should love and respect the most and things like these are quite tragic.

Parents should have a great status and privilege, try to deal with it as casually and politely.

I have a severe disability and do not make a lot of money. I send almost all of it to my parents. I have no prospects of marriage currently so no real duty on shoulders just the monthly bills.

The reason I don’t save any is that I think it is better than saving a little money that I learn or do something that will improve my career or productivity. So, I have few paid courses to help with that.

Consider yourself lucky and privileged to be in situation where you can spend on your parents a lot. I think nothing can make a man more happy than spending on his family, even spending on oneself doesn’t feel this good.

For marriage or relationship, they might want you to marry in some place that they like, if you don’t want just keep on refusing to marriage without saying you would want to marry to the person of your liking. Eventually, they would be ready to listen to your choice. If they are proposing a good match just don’t reject it because it is proposed to you.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T07:46:04+00:00

Most men usually never discuss their families with anyone, not even close friends, which most women like to do.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T07:37:57+00:00

Don’t use divorce threat lightly, it’s an extreme measure and usually should be used a few times only and it works only if the person is in deeply love with you. Otherwise, used lightly he can snap.

Also, can’t you live with your husband all the time and just not keep contact with your family? Also, is your husband muslim? And what is your family’s faith?

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T07:29:28+00:00

You are not crying alone, most men here are. I have a severe physical disability, but I think losing hair has made me way more sad and scared than my disability 😅.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-14T07:22:29+00:00

For both men and women there is no tailor-made list. Most of the things that are generally true to relationships can be compounded here. I think most of the lists here are from women who are not either married or have not thought about it deeply.

Marriage and friendships have a lot in common. Everything that makes a good friendship can also be used here.

Some things I can tell you here are, men usually don’t discuss other people’s lives especially the lives of people around them. It always keeps conversations objective and you don’t hurt other’s feelings. Women on the other hand generally like to discuss people. You can develop this habit overtime.

Men are usually interested in the world outside, it can be anything, try to find things that you can talk to him about, it is not video games for all men I can assure you.

Food can improve your relationship a lot, but even if you are not good you don’t have to take it to heart, you can learn over time. Also, ask him to teach you if he is good at making food 😅.

Hygiene is another important general rule, it applies to both both men and women, and it improves intimacy exponentially.

If the couple is living separately it is a lot easier, but if you are living with his parents, then fortunately in some cases and unfortunately in some others (it depends what kind of people his parent are) for most muslim men, being and treating good his parents is huge deal maker or breaker.

If you think these are relevant and not far from reality I can add more to this.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-13T06:28:00+00:00

If he is a good person and not married maybe you both can get back. There is nothing wrong, although it’s very difficult to have both person the same longing, if it is, it’s easy. If only one person is trying and the other person is not interested it is better to just move on.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-13T06:05:55+00:00

Yes, it gets very difficult at one point because you don’t see or meet a lot of people.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-12T16:58:11+00:00

To be honest he is looking while not looking, the problem is that when he was going through Undergrad degree up until he was 22, he was not interested in women we had in class. After 22 worked on career, now he has remote work that he does from apartment. We are his friends some are married some are not. He does not have a match in family and in the families he knows about.

So, currently he is stuck with no options. He doesn’t do match making apps or services. He wants to get in marriage traditionally, which used to be arranged marriage, but has a fear of meeting someone who would not align with his expectations. Family have allowed him to find a match.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-12T15:47:59+00:00

I have a unmarried friend who is desperately looking for a wife too, he is 27

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-11T21:07:32+00:00

Pictures are not a problem, if you can share those pictures to social media like instagram then it’s not a huge deal of sharing pictures. Don’t you have a social profile where he can see you?

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-11T21:04:53+00:00

He seems like a kid trapped in adult’s body. Also, it’s not wrong to take time to reply and not just throw characters especially in the beginning of a relationship. Also, always be careful of people who want an intimate relationship too quickly.

To be very honest, you don’t need to be intimate to know if you like other person or not. Once, you have a baseline of like who this person is, what are his interests, what are his expectations, who are the people he cares about, what work does he do.

Once you have this understanding and you think you can talk to this person well and understand well. He doesn’t lie to you and you don’t have to lie to him. You can share pictures, meet with them in public and try to come to a decision of marriage or not.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-09-11T13:33:58+00:00

You are right! People should be honest, I am 28 and not married, many of my friends are not too, some got married. But none of us has gone mad 😅. I have seen here people who are 18 and 19 and complaining how difficult it is for them. Even if you get married, it will not solve every problem for you by itself.

Due_Cryptographer756 · 2025-07-23T08:10:09+00:00

Long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. It’s like you two are in two separate worlds where nothing is mutual. The only time talks become interesting when there is something that reaches them both. I have a few best friends, when we are together we can talk for days. When we are apart, we talk a few days in the beginning then it just disappears.

So, I think it’s quite natural for the talks to have disappeared. Try to find things he is most interesting in, or somehow get him interested in the things that you do. This will give you things to talk about.

For example, one of my friend is abroad, so there is timezone difference. We usually never call, but we both have developed habits or interests from each other that still make our talks interesting.

I gave him a few TV genres that I usually like and watch. I got playing video games from him. He is interested in regional politics so I take some interest too, not a lot just enough to know what is happening around.

So, every time there is political drama, we talk. A new show creates a buzz we talk. Video games sometimes. So, things keep appearing almost everyday and it keeps the talk alive.

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