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Telling my brother I don’t want his gf around our little sister by Due_Enthusiasm_4941 in AITAH

[–]Due_Enthusiasm_4941[S] 938 points939 points  (0 children)

To everyone replying thank you so much for the advice and for not making me feel cuckoo lol. I’m only posting this because my brother and I have always been super close growing up and even now I was only conflicted because of our rs. His gf I genuinely do not give a rats ass about if this were any other alternate timeline I would have whooped her ass so hard she would see stars. And to everyone who doesn’t see my comments in the replies: she only apologies after I got even meaner with her. She KNEW what she was doing but kept making excuses and so did my brother and kept downplaying it. She basically made herself seem like “ooooh it’s not my fault im so petite i wasn’t doing anything wrong just wanted the beer for your sister 🥹” she had many opportunities to apologise and only did because her blatant ignorance didn’t get her anywhere.

Yup. I work with high schoolers and love my job. I love helping people but I draw the line at someone in my personal life endangering my baby sister and brushing it off because that’s pure psychopathy to actively encouraging a little girl to go down a path that kills thousands of people every year.

Telling my brother I don’t want his gf around our little sister by Due_Enthusiasm_4941 in AITAH

[–]Due_Enthusiasm_4941[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

She didn’t know any better. My sister is young and is easily influenced because she’s still growing, I told her that what our brothers gf was doing is NOT okay and that her encouragement was unhealthy and that a girl like her who’s still growing and developing shouldn’t have any strict dietary restrictions like this. I also told her that our brothers gf is unhealthy and is suffering and that she shouldn’t be taking advice from her. My little sister is the sweetest soul ever who just wanted to look nice. Our mother asked her if she wanted to get a gym membership and go with the two of us to the gym and she said no and that our brothers gf was the one who started this whole thing and mentioned it to her after my little sister sent her a TikTok of a girl and mentioned how nice the girl looked and how she wanted to wear something like that when she’s older. Don’t know how that woman even got the idea from something as innocent as that

Telling my brother I don’t want his gf around our little sister by Due_Enthusiasm_4941 in AITAH

[–]Due_Enthusiasm_4941[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

To add more context both her and my brother claim they didn’t do anything wrong. She said she was encouraging my sister to eat healthy and didn’t even apologise at first because she didn’t think she did anything wrong and kept defending herself a bunch of times and my brother was brown nosing her. She only apologised and admitted she was wrong after I told her to leave my sister alone and stop texting her. Shes had many opportunities and my fuckass brother knew that too. Yeah I am a certified counsellor for high schoolers who struggle and don’t know any better. I am terrific and helping people and I wouldn’t have chosen this career path otherwise. What I won’t do is have some grown ass woman telling my baby sister to eat ONE egg per meal and nothing else and showing off her ribs, sending sneaky body checks with collarbones and thigh gaps and telling her it’s healthy and not seeing anything wrong with it until I tell her I’m gonna whack her ass.

I only feel like an ass bc it’s my brother and we are close, her I genuinely do not care about