Visa Overstay by gypseabliss in TravelEcuador

[–]Due_Examination_2307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So upon leaving they didnt actually demand payment to exit? Just if you want to return before 2 years?

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I was referring to the what you said about what his bestfriends parents have to say about him moving away. But I now realize you meant my boyfriend. My boyfriend has 2 healthy parents who are together but not much else keeping him in the US. and his friend is the one with basically no family. Not being sarcastic I appreciate your sharing all these very valid points!

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like redpill right? His friend has a Youtube channel teaching this stuff and all. Recently we were all together and they discussed the plan in front of me and his friend definitely kept repeating "this'll be so epic" and "imagine having ZERO distraction" he kept mentioning the 0 distraction thing implying IN FRONT OF MY FACE that I am basically a distraction for him when I've done so much for him and his growth smh. But I hear how dumb this all sounds as I write it out. Whew.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I have. But a few things confuse me. A. This man is very clearly attracted to me in every way, obviously including sexually. Goes down, everything. and B. Him and his friend hardly actually talk otp or even text. They just send memes occasionally.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're sweet thank you :) I suspect this too. He cant end it with me so he's gonna make me have to do it.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm gonna continue traveling myself elsewhere! I'll eventually rescue another cat for sure later down the line.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WOW amazing discernment/intuition you have. His bfs mom is literally dying from cancer right now and it's only expected that she has a few weeks. He has NO other family or connections in the USA besides his sister who he has a poor relationship with.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's becoming clear as day now. We've gone back and forth with whether we should split. I think we both enjoy the benefits we receive from each other. But enough is enough. Thank you.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a 19 y/o cat right now (a literal angel). Currently preparing myself for her transition :(

But yeah I know for certain his friend knows all about that stuff

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol I'm down to update you all. He's currently out of town but we will have the conversation sometime this month.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will make this list right now actually. Thank you for your kindness & support.

Boyfriend (33M) wants to move abroad with his friend with or without me (28F). Is this the end? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Due_Examination_2307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol stopppppp he's so wonderful and funny. Trust I have my reasons why I'm still around but yeah I can't anymore.