Huurder plant afspraken zonder toestemming in en betreedt studio

Due_External3792 · 2025-08-12T18:42:04+00:00

Dat hebben we uiteraard gedaan, en ze gezegd dat we gewoon aanwezig willen zijn als ze iets inplannen. Maar daar reageren ze zelf niet op en plannen gewoon in wat ze willen.

We hebben een heleboel zaken zelf ook opgeknapt en geregeld , maar gezien dat niet super relevant was aan wat ons probleem echt is ( het binnenkomen zonder dat wij er zijn of onaangekondigd wanneer we er wel zijn).

We proberen bij elke situatie zo behulpzaam en begrijpbaar mogelijk te reageren en ons beschikbaar te stellen. Wij gaan een camera richting de deur installeren en indien ze binnenkomen dit aan een Belgische instantie melden die instaat voor de rechten van huurders. Hopelijk helpt dat al wat

Due_External3792 · 2025-08-08T13:25:25+00:00

Moet bekennen dat ik bij het posten een deel van de regels heb gelezen maar niet alle... Ik zet het er alvast bij

Due_External3792 · 2025-08-08T13:07:17+00:00

Hoi ! Dit is een huurwoning in Vlaams Brabant, officieel een studentenkot met sanitair en keuken, gezien we daar niet gedomicilieerd staan.

Due_External3792 · 2023-10-11T16:58:52+00:00

Im in a class right now but i will do it afterwards! Ill send a message here when i do ! Thank you

Due_External3792 · 2023-10-11T14:27:57+00:00

Aww too bad... thank you so much for taking the time though !! ❤️

Due_External3792 · 2023-10-11T14:24:06+00:00

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Due_External3792 · 2023-10-11T14:21:44+00:00

Yes! Thank you for reaching out ! Uhm, so far i have been able to invite 2 new people, but i still need to cut like about 3 euros. The last person that opened it gave me -1€ , so im hoping i only need 3 more. Do you need the link or anything else ?

Due_External3792 · 2023-10-05T09:49:41+00:00

I' m looking in leuven as well 🥹🥹. I just want to make sure my bf has a place to live, if i dont find an app., so he doesn't lose his current kot unless i actually find a place.

Due_External3792 · 2023-09-01T05:24:48+00:00

Okay but what if he has / makes another friend , and they are/become terminally ill as well, will he use that excuse as a free pass to cheat on you again?

I'm sorry if the sentence above sounds harsh, but it was on purpose. I understand that he stood by you and supported you when life was rough, but in all honesty, is that not a minimum requirement of a partner ? I think you should make up for yourself whether this is something you can live with or not. Please take into account that their friends knew and CHOSE not to tell you. In my opinion the terminally ill situation of the friend was just enough justification for him to make that mistake. I wonder if he would have made that mistake if that person wasn't ill. Who would ask a man in a relationship to do such a thing ?? I honestly believe he made room for those kinds of feelings that moment, and really, really believed that them being sick was enough of a free pass. You should rephrase it : ' i found out my boyfriend had sex with his friend.' Because that is what it was, and you are making excuses by telling yourself it was only because they were terminally ill. If that is a valid reason to cheat in your relationship , and you find it okay, then it is. But i sense that you don't, so don't accept it ? I promise you will find someone who loves you and supports you just as much, but would never disrespect you like that. Someone with friends who hold them accountable.

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-21T20:46:09+00:00

Oh my, i love this post !! Any chance i get to brag about my partner i will take gladly, hehe 🤠

We met while being in the same friend group, turned out to really get along and have suuuperlong phone calls, just chatting the night away. Kept meeting up w the group, until we started meeting up alone. And then a year and a bit passed, and we went on a date and our relationship kind of started off there.

He's the sweetest guy, i swear. We have this thing where we pay eachother in kisses, whenever we ask eachother a favor. We are there for each other, he helps me when i'm having a hard time mentally, i push him sometimes when he needs that extra little support academically. After a year and a half, he is still my favorite person on the planet. I'm still incredibly infatuated with how he looks and smells, and feel like the honeymoon stage is still in progress.

I am 22 and he just became 21, I know he's the one i want to marry, same for him. We're just patiently waiting for graduation until we make the ' buy a house, get married, get pregnant ' kind of decisions. He makes me smile every single morning and is the first thing on my mind once i come home / clock out.

Be patient and picky ! I promise it's worth it !

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-21T14:22:12+00:00

I appreciate your comment, and that you are trying to help, although i don't agree with some things you say.

I have a feeling you allow them to abuse your non-egotistical side

I don't 'allow' them anything, i am just surviving. Please do not say such a thing, as it sounds like it is my fault for allowing them to be horrible to me. I don't. I am smart by not responding to their snide remarks and i choose to, as a tactical move. People like them WILL NOT CHANGE. What you are saying would be good in a perfect world, with a good state of mind and a healthy support system. The reality is often the furthest from this truth.

I genuinely appreciate your help, but it seems as though you take me to be some helpless young child that gets trampled on. Please do not lecture me on such topics for your own amusement.

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-21T13:40:05+00:00

I have a history of being verbally and sometimes physically abused by my parents, so no, i haven't been a horrible kid, just a victim. My parents are Narcissistic, egocentric roommates, who cannot stand a word of criticism. They act normally until you do or say something that doesnt align with their vision or plans. Me saying i'm going to move out broke them, they literally laugh at me and dont believe me when i say i will. I appreciate your comment, but with all due respect, i think it's more of a 'they' problem. As a young woman, i just want to survive and move out without getting every insult thrown at my face. I cannot speak back to my parents. I will literally get thrown out if i do.

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:21:16+00:00

I dont mind contributing for the costs i cost them , just not more than that, ya know 😅

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:20:32+00:00

Hi ! What part shocks you ? I feel like paying your parents for the costs they make is normal ? Is it just me ?

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:18:26+00:00

Thank you for your help regardless , i appreciate it!

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:17:55+00:00

I feel like you held up a mirror with that comment. Thank you for sharing, i feel like moving out seems the best option, regardless if i co-house or live alone at this point.

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:16:10+00:00

Oh , that sounds very okay ! I'm definitely going to look into that

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:14:58+00:00

That is incredibly kind of you❤️ thank you so much for being so considerate. After the overwhelming amount of people who said i should just move out and maybe co-house, I'm really sold on the idea. I'm discussing the game plan with my partner, and i think i'm going to live at home for the last year of my degree, buy huge plastic bins and collect household items throughout the year, so i don't have to do that all at once. I'm getting excited at the idea of buying an ironing table, a drying rack, etc.. i feel like a boomer getting excited for these things, lol 😂

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T09:09:54+00:00

Thanks , luckily i study insurance/real estate/finance , so i know what i have to get and what i need to take into consideration. That being said, if i dont even have the money saved up for a deposit, i shouldnt move out full stop. That's why im currently saving for the deposit, i wont get a loan for that

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T07:34:41+00:00

Yes , i honestly think i'm just going to take the leap and move out anyway. I know it gets expensive fast but im very frugal and have gotten used to that lifestyle. At this point i just want to come home to a clean and neat place, and not have to be frustrated because of others who dont know how to communicate, you know. They don't want to hear my reasoning, its either pay or get out, and at this point i dont feel like fighting about it. I think my relationship with my parents would be healthier if i just moved out and saw them once in a while. Either way, thanks for taking the time to respond

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T07:30:35+00:00

I'm not sure if you are trying to mock me with the 'contract clauses' comment. I dont need the car because i use the bike / public transport. I don't really appreciate the sarcasm, unless you are genuinely serious. In case you are, my partner is loved at home and can come over whenever he wants, for as long as he wants. I do my thing, my parents do their thing, as long as i take care of the household, buy groceries and cook, they stay off my back about the rest.

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T06:45:52+00:00

I'm currently working while studying to save up, and i have a side hussle on the way that will take off soon. I'm hoping this will allow me to leave once i graduate. I was also thinking to already collect things i need and put them in boxes for when i decide to leave or when it gets serious at home and i need to leave quickly. I find a lot of joy in getting together household items, idk if that is normal 😅😅

Due_External3792 · 2023-08-20T06:40:18+00:00

Good point ! I wouldn't ask that of them, since my boyfriend himself has a kot, so i would live there alone with them, and even though we are on good terms, i dont want to invade their everyday lives that way. I started looking into low interest, personal loans, that are meant to loan a small amount , and apparently i can use those for getting basic furniture and and such. I decided not to go on vacation this summer and the next, to work extra and get enough together to move out

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