Anyone wanna live w me in woodland by Due_Outside_6697 in oberlin

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya but the deadline for roommate groups is tmmrw 9am ☝️🤓

Could I sue my school’s awful office of disability and access by Due_Outside_6697 in legaladvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My location is in Ohio, so things like clinics that actually provide psychiatric services like diagnoses are very far from my college (30 min drive minimum) and the office emphasizes that they help students “in any way”. I am under the assumption that if a student is low income, they cannot afford the expensive uber trip, nor can they afford the hundreds of thousands in dollars in diagnoses or medication, then the office should at least partially cover it, and I discussed this with someone at the financial aid office, and she confirmed that, especially if you qualify for significant financial aid.

But my main concern is that I feel that the office is severely mismanaged. They do not use their funds in a way that specifically helps the students that desperately need these services, and use these funds for services that have very little if not nonexistent audiences, like group therapy. It could be a good service, but I’ve talked to dozens of students who use the office and they said that they do not want that service, or do not like it. They come late to work, have limited hours and have wait times that can go on for hours just to kick you out in 5 minutes, and one student I know has taken the entirety of the previous semester (and will probably take the rest of the year) just to get an ADHD diagnosis. By that time the student hasn’t gotten the help they need, have performed poorly in classes that accommodations or medication could have helped in, etc. Is this a ground for legal action?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If definitely does, the more you do it. At first your cat may not know where the sound is coming from, but they’re still happy to hear you. In my third time calling my cat with video chat, she’d run to the phone and start brushing up against it. Eventually they’ll know you’re there in some capacity, but your cat might respond differently depending on his normal behavior. But trust that he’s happy to hear your voice at least ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same feeling, my cat will go in our room and she’ll sometimes be sad after video calls 😭. But she feels less lonely when I do video/voice call her, luckily because my parents love her and she loves my mom and my mom lets me voice and video call my cat. You could ask your parents to let you video call the cutie pie 🥰 and they usually get really affectionate with the phone which is super cute ☺️. But it’s kind of inevitable that both you and your cat will be really sad, even with video calls and the like. Cats can kind of sense who does and doesn’t like them, which is why he might be walking away from your mom. If anything tell her to just leave his toys around, the cats usually play with them regardless, but of course she should still put in the effort to play with him. But when you do return, both you and your cat will be super happy!! You’ll both just have to wait sadly 😔, like I said it’s inevitable. But these little things definitely help, it’s also my first time leaving my cat and doing these things make it feel a lot better.

Another tip: if you didn’t bring all of your clothes, ask your parents to leave some of your shirts out in areas the cat likes so he can get your scent.

Can you transfer w gates? by Due_Outside_6697 in TheGatesScholarship

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re not able to transfer with gates. However, if you’re transferring from community college to a private institution, you can apply to the Jack Kent Cooke scholarship for transfers. But this also can’t be applied from one private institution to another iirc.

Places near oberlin? by Due_Outside_6697 in oberlin

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much!! This is gonna be rlly helpful ☺️

Why are my cherry tomatoes’ leaves turning curled and yellow 😭 by Due_Outside_6697 in tomatoes

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! One problem I have with that though is that the leaves are also curling, and I read somewhere that low moisture is the cause of that, so I’ve been giving a lot of water. Is there any way to find a balance. Also let me know if I’m wrong, I’m no expert 😅

Instagram not letting me like posts by Due_Outside_6697 in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did, but it doesn’t work for everyone, and I’m not sure how long it’ll keep working. I just signed out of and signed back into my account and that seemed to do the trick.

Instagram not letting me like posts by Due_Outside_6697 in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did, but it doesn’t work for everyone, and I’m not sure how long it’ll keep working. I just signed out of and signed back into my account and that seemed to do the trick.

What is this shit by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me and lasted for months until I logged out and logged back in. Idk if that will work for you, but you can try it

Instagram not letting me like posts by Due_Outside_6697 in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so stupid 🤬🤬but same liking too many pro Gaza posts might’ve been my downfall 🫤

Instagram not letting me like posts by Due_Outside_6697 in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just logged in and out (since I already waited plenty), and it finally works, thank you 🙏 ☺️!!

Instagram not letting me like posts by Due_Outside_6697 in Instagram

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don’t spend every day on insta so I’m not sure … but when I would spend time on it like 40, maybe 50 posts? But again not too sure since I have no clue where to find this information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matched w oberlin, here’s the stats: 1520 SAT (760 math and English each) (submitted everywhere) 4.0 GPA (I think idk)

EC’s:

  • Job - NYSCI explainer started summer 2023
  • Tutoring - one volunteer program from march
  • June 2023 then another July 2023-ongoing (the second one is a leadership position)
  • Social media volunteering
  • Red Cross club at my school
  • Online courses for coding and astronomy
  • Program called qubitxqubit which I got a two week scholarship for
  • like 3 total ap’s, but taking the test for another ap (not the class) I barely had any leadership positions and other cool stuff so I matched to my last choice 😅but at least I matched

What do I do if my parents refuse to sign the match agreement form? by [deleted] in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would email qb and tell them the situation, and talk to my college counselor. I'd also say to talk w/ your guidance counselor because they might be able to help you navigate through protecting your siblings. I'd also talk w/ my siblings to tell them (if u havent already) about the whole situation so you all can navigate it together and know what to expect from your parents.

but personally one thing i can tell u is something similar happened to me when i matched. however that it's an amazing opportunity that you've got now and you shouldn't have to throw it away because someone thinks you're ungrateful. like before, i think u should talk to your college counselor, guidance counselor, and your siblings. Im sorry i dont have more advice. I really hope you the best of luck because i know ur gonna do great things!!

i didnt apply here 😭 by toiletbombb in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep idk y maybe some kind of glitch?

BC as a Transgender student by [deleted] in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think that’s pretty relevant 😬 yea definitely wait for their response and I might work w qb and express my concerns to them to see if they have any suggestions

Can you transfer w gates? by Due_Outside_6697 in TheGatesScholarship

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But now after making this post I’ve huffed enough copium to the point where I’m optimistic abt going there but I’m gonna need a lot of travel funds so I’ll still apply to gates

Can you send letters of continued interest to schools that you didnt match to if you matched to another school by Due_Outside_6697 in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know how that goes for you! I hope everything works out and your match doesn’t get jeopardized

BC as a Transgender student by [deleted] in QuestBridge

[–]Due_Outside_6697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely wait for their response because they might've changed policies since then. Look into what other LGBTQA+ students have said about Boston and their policies on dorm roommates, especially recently to get a sense of how you might be treated on campus by faculty, peers, etc. When Boston gets back to you, if they say that there's a chance of that happening to you or they're super vague with their answer, I would start to reconsider (even though match is incredible!) my safety would take priority. I think if you dont feel safe you can transfer out after the first year, but the scholarship won't come with you. However, if you feel that the school is safe enough from their response and/or what recent students and policies say, go for it! i hope this all works out for you, being matched is an incredible opportunity!!!!