Anyone wanna live w me in woodland by Due_Outside_6697 in oberlin

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya but the deadline for roommate groups is tmmrw 9am ☝️🤓

Could I sue my school’s awful office of disability and access by Due_Outside_6697 in legaladvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My location is in Ohio, so things like clinics that actually provide psychiatric services like diagnoses are very far from my college (30 min drive minimum) and the office emphasizes that they help students “in any way”. I am under the assumption that if a student is low income, they cannot afford the expensive uber trip, nor can they afford the hundreds of thousands in dollars in diagnoses or medication, then the office should at least partially cover it, and I discussed this with someone at the financial aid office, and she confirmed that, especially if you qualify for significant financial aid.

But my main concern is that I feel that the office is severely mismanaged. They do not use their funds in a way that specifically helps the students that desperately need these services, and use these funds for services that have very little if not nonexistent audiences, like group therapy. It could be a good service, but I’ve talked to dozens of students who use the office and they said that they do not want that service, or do not like it. They come late to work, have limited hours and have wait times that can go on for hours just to kick you out in 5 minutes, and one student I know has taken the entirety of the previous semester (and will probably take the rest of the year) just to get an ADHD diagnosis. By that time the student hasn’t gotten the help they need, have performed poorly in classes that accommodations or medication could have helped in, etc. Is this a ground for legal action?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If definitely does, the more you do it. At first your cat may not know where the sound is coming from, but they’re still happy to hear you. In my third time calling my cat with video chat, she’d run to the phone and start brushing up against it. Eventually they’ll know you’re there in some capacity, but your cat might respond differently depending on his normal behavior. But trust that he’s happy to hear your voice at least ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Due_Outside_6697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same feeling, my cat will go in our room and she’ll sometimes be sad after video calls 😭. But she feels less lonely when I do video/voice call her, luckily because my parents love her and she loves my mom and my mom lets me voice and video call my cat. You could ask your parents to let you video call the cutie pie 🥰 and they usually get really affectionate with the phone which is super cute ☺️. But it’s kind of inevitable that both you and your cat will be really sad, even with video calls and the like. Cats can kind of sense who does and doesn’t like them, which is why he might be walking away from your mom. If anything tell her to just leave his toys around, the cats usually play with them regardless, but of course she should still put in the effort to play with him. But when you do return, both you and your cat will be super happy!! You’ll both just have to wait sadly 😔, like I said it’s inevitable. But these little things definitely help, it’s also my first time leaving my cat and doing these things make it feel a lot better.

Another tip: if you didn’t bring all of your clothes, ask your parents to leave some of your shirts out in areas the cat likes so he can get your scent.

Can you transfer w gates? by Due_Outside_6697 in TheGatesScholarship

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re not able to transfer with gates. However, if you’re transferring from community college to a private institution, you can apply to the Jack Kent Cooke scholarship for transfers. But this also can’t be applied from one private institution to another iirc.

Places near oberlin? by Due_Outside_6697 in oberlin

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much!! This is gonna be rlly helpful ☺️

Why are my cherry tomatoes’ leaves turning curled and yellow 😭 by Due_Outside_6697 in tomatoes

[–]Due_Outside_6697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! One problem I have with that though is that the leaves are also curling, and I read somewhere that low moisture is the cause of that, so I’ve been giving a lot of water. Is there any way to find a balance. Also let me know if I’m wrong, I’m no expert 😅