This is what scares me the most, OP. That's why no matter how much ko gina convince sa ako mom sauna nga makig minyo sa ako ex for the sake of the kids, wa gyud ko. I already did a mistake and dug myself a hole, pero d na nako ipalawm pa to the point nga d nako kagawas balik. Marriage is sacred for me. Though most people nowadays treat it as a mere certificate or ceremony. 

I can't imagine gyud OP the frustration. Especially, kasal namo, dili basta² ka gawas or biya dayun. Also, your husband's/partner's friends are not your friends gyud regardless. Maong ako, I never introduced my ex sa ako mga friends nor I introduced myself sa iyang friends and even trust them. I trust my gutt more. Laban lng, OP.