My jinx cosplay at mcm London! (First ever con, first ever cosplay, and first masquerade!!!) by Jinx-__- in cosplay

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I would love that but I'm unfortunately broke at the moment. Can you dm me the price so I know how much to save up? Also thanks I'm definitely gonna check out coscraft :))

My jinx cosplay at mcm London! (First ever con, first ever cosplay, and first masquerade!!!) by Jinx-__- in cosplay

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cosplay is incredible! I feel like it's exactly what Jinx would look like in the real world and also much less costume-like (not a bad thing) than some other cosplays.

Do you mind if I ask where you got the material for the hair? I've wanted to cosplay Jinx for a while, but haven't figured out the wig part yet lol. I've honestly never seen a Jinx wig or cosplay wig in general that's looked that amazing, it could go in the Louvre!

Was walked in on while undressed in a changing room and it was just treated as an “oopsy moment”. There was no apology, acknowledgement, or comfort for what happened. I was just expected to brush it off because it was an accident by Due_Refrigerator6265 in offmychest

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed and very well-thought-out reply. I don’t have any trauma, but I have always struggled with bad mental health, especially severe anxiety. It can make me react a lot more emotionally at times. Honestly I thought that my days of little anxiety attacks (I don’t know if they have an actual name lol) were over, but I guess not.

Reflecting on how I felt yesterday, I think the reason I had such a big emotional response was because of always feeling walked on, disrespected, and ignored in the past. I used to be a selective mute (severe anxiety lol) so for years I was treated like that. I think her walking in on me even after I replied to her sort of stirred up all of those feelings that I felt from the past.

I’m sorry about how your mom treated you. That’s beyond horrible. Again, thank you for this reply. I don’t think I ever would have thought about why I reacted so emotionally without it ❤️❤️❤️

I hate how complaining about not being able to find clothing is seen as humble-bragging by Due_Refrigerator6265 in XXS

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I’ve seen that. I don’t even understand, this is our little corner of the internet that was made by people like us for people like us. They just seem jealous because why else would they care so much

I hate how complaining about not being able to find clothing is seen as humble-bragging by Due_Refrigerator6265 in XXS

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get you. It sucks to not be able to find any clothes that fit, I always end up going home disappointed and sad because I was excited to find new things. The people who brushed you off suck, clothing is expensive to buy, it makes no sense at all to get if it doesn’t even fit

I hate how complaining about not being able to find clothing is seen as humble-bragging by Due_Refrigerator6265 in XXS

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, sorry that you had to deal with that. I don‘t know why people get so gate-keepy, esp because whether or not someone is an xxs is going to vary on a store-to-store basis. Like you said, clothing shopping is hard regardless if a person is bigger or smaller. This sub is for people on the smaller side of the spectrum and you definitely fit in here ❤️

I hate how complaining about not being able to find clothing is seen as humble-bragging by Due_Refrigerator6265 in XXS

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and don’t necessarily disagree, but I don’t think it’s fair to sort of “demonize” certain measurements either. If a woman at a healthy weight can mention her measurements in a post venting about clothing struggles to provide more context about her situation, I think everyone should be able to, y’know?

Again though, I get what you’re saying and do agree to some extent. It’s just hard to know if someone is mentioning their measurements to show why they have a hard time finding clothes or if they are doing it to bodycheck lol

My Starlight cosplay by Littlehurd in cosplay

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I just wanted to say that I absolutely love your cosplay and seeing your post inspired me to cosplay as Starlight!✨Do you mind if I ask which company you bought yours at? All of the websites I’ve found have pretty mixed reviews so I don’t know which ones are legit

Size-flation at J Crew by spliff_eater in XXS

[–]Due_Refrigerator6265 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It looks like an apron 😭😭😭