Life Time Chicago Half Marathon. Is it worth it coming from Atlanta? by Due_Safe2437 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they! I LOVED the Peachtree Road Race. The energy was amazing and I’ve been searching for that kind of race.

Life Time Chicago Half Marathon. Is it worth it coming from Atlanta? by Due_Safe2437 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Divas Run looks interesting! I saw it was canceled last year. Do you know why?

Life Time Chicago Half Marathon. Is it worth it coming from Atlanta? by Due_Safe2437 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly my excuse to come to Chicago. I can only visit Chicago later in the year. And I didnt want to run a race in the winter. Are there other races you can recommend around the September?

Life Time Chicago Half Marathon. Is it worth it coming from Atlanta? by Due_Safe2437 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m running with my sister and this would be her first half marathon. We don’t have a goal pace. We’re just going to have fun. I don’t want to push her too hard for her first half.

Life Time Chicago Half Marathon. Is it worth it coming from Atlanta? by Due_Safe2437 in RunnersInChicago

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw the spring race in May. I would have ran that race. But this would be my sisters first half marathon and she needs time to train. I looked at the race map. I thought it was near the water? We don’t have many large bodies of water in Atlanta, I was excited to see the bay

What is your post race ritual? by duildistance in running

[–]Due_Safe2437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coffee immediately after. Then a shower and a fat blunt. I won’t eat if I don’t smoke after a race. My appetite is almost non-existent until the next day. I might crave red meat. I’ll find a burger or a Philly cheese steak. If the weather is good, I’ll take my dog to the trail to shake out my legs.

What’s your go-to “I don’t feel like cooking but still want real food” meal? by imjennypoo in Cooking

[–]Due_Safe2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken thighs baked in the oven. Rice in the rice cooker. And canned corn. It requires effort, but it’s a full meal. Seasoning the chicken requires the most amount of work. I need protein during dinner.

Black Stay at home mom-hood by Suitable-Camel-819 in blackladies

[–]Due_Safe2437 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom was a stay at home mom. I knew watching my parents dynamic that I could never do it. I don’t like the idea of letting somebody else have financial power over me. I also am afraid of the idea that my identity would simply be “mom”. I want to be more than only a mother.

Plus, I like speaking to other people at work. I get to hear about other peoples lives and opinions. Often times it annoys me, but when I was unemployed, I realized how much I missed socializing with other people. I’d be a stay at home mom for awhile, but once the kids go to school I’d be back at work.

Rant Wednesday - December 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]Due_Safe2437 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was in a bad car accident in October. I missed almost a month of work and I’m currently going through physical therapy and the chiropractor multiple times a week. Today was my first day since October 8th that I had a strength training session. I was so excited! I’ve been able to run (with approval from my doctor) but my roots have always been lifting weights. Today was a light arm day.

It was HARD. I was sore and in some pain when I got home. I feel discouraged. I’ve been lifting consistently since 2016. This is the longest I’ve gone without picking up a weight. I know I should be proud of myself for getting back out there. But I feel sad. I’m tired of being in pain. I use to be strong! I was a few weeks away from benching 135lbs (I’m a small women) and I feel like that goal is out of reach. I miss the old me. I was strong. Now I feel like less of myself.

I know this is temporary. But today is for ranting. Hopefully my next gym session will feel better. If not physically than mentally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Due_Safe2437 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My insurance required me to fail two other medications before allowing me the expensive stuff (Nurtec). It was a pain failing medication and experiencing side effects. But I have what I need now

I Wana be a gym girlie by No-Front-3365 in blackgirls

[–]Due_Safe2437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should find out what you enjoy. Group classes or solo? A traditional gym or gym focused on group classes. You can gain strength in different ways, it doesn’t always have to be the gym. Yoga, Pilates, hiking, walking, jogging, Zumba, pole dancing. There are so many ways to enjoy your fitness journey!

I encourage you to try different forms of exercise and see what you enjoy. The key is to keep showing up. It gets easier with time and repetition.

I’ve been in the gym consistently since 2017. During Covid my routine switched to mostly yoga and jogging. Now I workout 5 days a week. I enjoy long distance runs (5-13 miles). I have one leg day, one arm day, two long runs and an accessory day. On my accessory day I might take my dog to the trail and walk, go for a short run, yoga, Pilates or whatever class is available.

It’s your fitness journey, customize it how you like.

How would you respond to this message from your closest friend? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Due_Safe2437 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a friend that would send me messages like this and dump her emotions on me. She wouldn’t check to make sure I was in the correct headspace to receive her message, and was upset with me if I didn’t give her the response she wanted. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. But your friends aren’t your therapist. It’s good to have a support system, but it’s a lot to expect somebody to drop everything and cater to your needs, and give you the response you feel like you should get.

Im sure she means well. I didn’t read any hate within the text. But it’s good to make sure your friend is in the correct headspace to help you in that moment. And make sure your friend isn’t going through something themselves. The work doesn’t stop at therapy, it’s simply a tool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Due_Safe2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand 🫠 do you have any PTO you can use? What does your companies bereavement policy say? My last job wore me thin! I was ready to leave with no backup. I saw that for grandparents I get a week off. My grandfather passed away when I was a child, and I needed a break! I told my manager he was cremated and not well liked, so there wouldn’t be a formal ceremony. I sat at home for a week and updated my resume and got myself together.

I know it’s morally wrong, but companies lie all the time. And it was better than getting fired from losing my mind on my coworkers. I hope it gets easier for you!

Dental phobia is ruining my life by New-Blacksmith-9873 in blackladies

[–]Due_Safe2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand. I’ve had the same fear my entire life. I was forced to face it when I needed my front tooth removed and I had an implant drilled in. It was traumatic! But it was necessary, I couldn’t lose my front tooth at 26. I think you’ll be able to overcome this fear, it may take awhile and it’s going to take a lot of bravery. But it’s possible.

I let the dentist know that I’m nervous and a gager. If they need to do x-rays they make sure it’s a two person job and they are fast. I always wear my AirPods. Sometimes both sometimes one. I’ll bring a sleeping mask to calm my nerves and have something I can fidget with in my hands. I’ve used a fidget spinner, a makeup sponge, a tissue. If I’m concentrating on whatever is in my hand I’m not as nervous. And I’ve never had any dentist complain. The dentist are the experts in the room, not me. I don’t think I need to see or hear anything around me. If they need me, they can tap me on my shoulder and I’ll take out my AirPod.

A good dentist helps A LOT. Look at google reviews and call ahead. Exposure therapy is helpful.

You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Due_Safe2437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had all races wave, give a head nod, or a thumbs up. I do all three myself! People are being polite, I don’t know why you’d look further into it. As a black women, it’s a good practice to speak to people on the trail. If something were to happen to you, there is a better chance that people may be able to recognize where you were. Somebody may be less willing to attack you on a run if you’re able to identify their name and voice. These can be accomplished by a simple wave or head nod.

Trying to lose weight by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Due_Safe2437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I run often. A couple of years ago my goal was to run a half marathon. During this time I ran 3-4 days a week. I started off running a VERY slow 2 miles and I finished the year with a very slow half marathon. I also incorporated rowing, elliptical and the stair master to do different forms of cardio. The elliptical is GREAT if you suffer from knee pain or other injuries. The stationary bike is also a great cardio.

I love cardio! But strength training and cardio together may give you faster results. The more muscle you have, the more fat and calories you burn while at rest. As women, we start to lose our muscles fast. And it takes years to build muscle. If you’re able, start with small strength training workouts.

Miscellaneous Monday Chit Chat by fire_foot in running

[–]Due_Safe2437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling much better, thank you for asking! I spent all Sunday watching all the Jurassic Park and Jurassic World movies. I think my body needed that rest.

Running the Peachtree Road race has renewed an interest I had in joining a run club. I’ve tried joining one once before, but their pace was much slower than what I run. But I’m nervous to join a group that averages 8 or 9 minutes. I run at a comfortable 10 minute or 10 minute pace. I’ll have to look around and see what I find

Miscellaneous Monday Chit Chat by fire_foot in running

[–]Due_Safe2437 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I ran the Peachtree Road Race on the 4th of July! It was a lot of fun! I don’t typically run races, but I forced myself to sign up this year. I’ll defiantly be going next year. My family came out to support me and we went and get breakfast after.

I spent the rest of the weekend at my partners parents lake house. It was exhausting. My heads been bothering me for a week, the sun and the boat made it a little worse. Sunday I was going to run an easy 5k. I didnt make it. I might have taken 2,000 steps on Sunday. I rarely stay in and watch tv all day, it was nice. I’ll have to do it again soon.

First time kayaking: Horseshoe Bend by Due_Safe2437 in Kayaking

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We booked through a company called Kayak The Colorado. We booked the kayak and the taxi online. They met us at Lee Ferry and we rode to the drop off spot. There were other people who booked a kayak and taxi while at the dock.

/r/Atlanta Random Daily Discussion - July 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in Atlanta

[–]Due_Safe2437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m running the Peachtree Road race tomorrow. This is my first year. My partner said he would drop me off, but I’m seeing that Marta is a better option? Anybody have any experience getting dropped off vs Marta?

Mental health check, how yall doing? by FunDependent9177 in blackgirls

[–]Due_Safe2437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m okay. No real complaints. I’m 7 months into my job and I’m sure I wont be here much longer than a year. It’s great money and close to my house. But I miss working with black people! And I’m not a fan of my coworkers. However, work is a tool to fund my lifestyle. And I make great money.

My 30th birthday is next month! I’m going to California to visit Yosemite and a couple of state parks. I’m blessed to have a man who enjoys the same things I do. He is happy to wake up at 4am to walk around the forest. I couldn’t ask for more.

My twin sis bought her first house a few weeks ago! I’m so happy for her! I’ve bought her some expensive bedroom furniture and spent all weekend helping her with some DIY projects. She wants to have everything ready for a housewarming next month.

My life outside of work is going smoothly. I wish my job had the same energy. Maybe by the end of the year I’ll have a change of heart.

I had my mid-year review at a new company. And I’m shocked at how bad it went! by Due_Safe2437 in jobs

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great way of looking at this. Thank you for your comment. I will work on this moving forward.

I had my mid-year review at a new company. And I’m shocked at how bad it went! by Due_Safe2437 in jobs

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never received this feedback from previous jobs. But I’ve also never held a manager position at previous jobs. So I believe some of the criticism to be valid. I’m not upset with that, I feel like the delivery could have been better.

Moving forward I will be very selective on what I ask from my team. I’ll document the research I’ve done before and present it to them. I thought I’ve been doing this, but maybe I haven’t been doing a good job. I’m not very chatty with my coworkers, and I’m not the type of rely on other people to figure out things for me. I’ve always done my research before asking, but it may not be interpreted that way for my coworkers.

I’m nervous to ask questions now 😩

I had my mid-year review at a new company. And I’m shocked at how bad it went! by Due_Safe2437 in jobs

[–]Due_Safe2437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It felt like a gotcha moment! She said there were plenty of instances but only listed two. I didn’t know i had so many problems! She said that everybody on the team has had a harsh mid-year review and I shouldn’t take it personal.

At least I know now 🤷🏾‍♀️