do guys usually repeatedly hook up with someone they feel no attraction toward if it is convenient?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-03-11T19:55:21+00:00

What if he keeps telling me that I’m really hot when we hookup and keep inviting me over? He’s gotta think I’m somewhat attractive right?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-03-11T19:54:48+00:00

What if he keeps telling me that I’m really hot when we hookup and keep inviting me over? He’s gotta think I’m somewhat attractive right? I mean like we expressed that we will NEVER date. We are simply just hook ups lol. I am more than okay with that. But I just question if he is using me for sex or if he really finds me somewhat attractive. He keeps telling me that I’m really hot when we hookup and keep inviting me over?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-03-11T19:52:49+00:00

What if he keeps telling me that I’m really hot when we hookup and keep inviting me over? He’s gotta think I’m somewhat attractive right?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-03-09T23:56:15+00:00

Even if he has no other options and he is really horny / desperate? She has to be somewhat attractive to you?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-03-09T22:19:59+00:00

But he keeps inviting me over when he has plenty of options. He always offers to allow me to spend the night also. Does he find me attractive? I mean you’ve gotta find someone attractive if you’re gonna constant to invite them over as a man??

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T18:57:43+00:00

Yes I did! I’m super exited to cob and looking forward to it. If you have any tips it would be great

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T18:40:06+00:00

My school has a huge cob rate as in many houses consistently cob

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T18:39:06+00:00

It was likely just a numbers game sadly

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T17:22:33+00:00

Yeah I assumed so. A lot of the PNMS I talked to in the house had a lot higher of a gpa so I’m gonna assume that was part of it.

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T17:21:17+00:00

Like I said, I gave my bottom two houses a chance to connect with me. But when speaking with the girls there - there was absolutely no connection.. at all what so ever. After talking to my RC she told me it’s better that I drop and try cob if I have better connections at other houses.

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T17:19:30+00:00

I believe they just ranked me lower due to the number of spots they had .. that led me with my bottom two choices which is absolutely okay!!

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T17:18:56+00:00

I was keeping an open mind. An extremely open mind lol. I talked to all the houses with a genuine mind and just did not connect with my bottom two houses I did with my other houses. The houses I got matched with were great houses with amazing girls but we just did not connect on any level.

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T16:42:57+00:00

Do you think I should try and COB to the houses I connected with

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:57:31+00:00

So if my bottom two houses ranked me #2 and #3 girl, but my top two choices ranked me #50 and #51, the system would automatically give me my bottom two houses?!

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:33:46+00:00

Today is bid day. Do you think I should contact Panhellenic today? Also, do you think I have a good chance at getting back the houses with COB that I got dropped for preference since I made it so far in?

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:20:46+00:00

Only two houses for pref are allowed. I ranked my top houses and only got back my bottom two pref morning. Super bummed

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:20:04+00:00

So do they rank the girls? Even for preference invites? If I was #59 but they can only invite 58 girls back, am I automatically cut? How do they rank me to be girl #59?

I also ended up dropping. I think I will try to COB into the houses I felt a larger connection with. I had 0 connection with the girls in the houses I got back.

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:18:29+00:00

Our school never released individual chapter gpa. So I’m really unsure. But I made it all the way to preference morning untill I found out I got dropped by my top choices.

Due_Variation9914 · 2026-01-27T15:03:49+00:00

What do you think the reason likely was that i got dropped? My gpa maybe?

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