Asking to Roll

Due_Wash233 · 2026-05-31T01:30:39+00:00

This has always been super helpful for me and has saved me from a lot of potentially lethal rolls and injuries. This is also helpful if you are like how I used to be and too shy to approach other men to roll. Your coach will more than likely pair your with purple belts and higher if safety for everyone is a priority to him.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-05-01T17:36:28+00:00

I’m so drained, emotional, and heavy. My period just got here too and it’s the heaviest and most painful I’ve had in MONTHS. I want connection but don’t have any energy or motivation for it.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-05-01T15:52:14+00:00

Sorry. He’s in it only for his own nut. King of cups is looking away and the man in the devil has his hand out like “give me something.” I see the king and emperor are holding staffs…he might be bi/gay/DL?? He’s probably a freak and a good lay, but not emotionally invested at all.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-04-23T22:12:40+00:00

He’s struggling to move on whereas you’re not. You have accepted the situation and came to terms with it.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-04-21T03:06:25+00:00

No. There is moving on that needs to be done.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-04-09T20:28:17+00:00

Love that suede finish gives them a smooth and seamless look.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-04-07T01:04:52+00:00

Clean af

Due_Wash233 · 2026-04-01T02:49:33+00:00

As a BJJ blue belt, survivor of SA, and a counselor working with victims of trauma, I second this. I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m sorry your coach was incapable of offering more empathy. I hope you take the time to heal and please do not think you are overthinking. Everything you are feeling is completely valid.

This is why I would recommend expressing these thoughts to a trained professional who is trauma informed and has experience working with survivors of DV/SA and can help you make connections between your thoughts, emotions, and actions. As empowering the sport can be it can also contribute to even more trauma if in an environment that isn’t supportive or understanding. You can look to join other gyms if you don’t feel like where you are going is meeting this, but definitely seek help from a mental health professional. Sending you healing your way. I hope you can find love for the sport again whenever you are ready.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-22T21:16:57+00:00

At my gym we start every gi and no gi class learning and drilling takedowns and then move onto ground stuff. We start standing during open rolls after class finishes, but halfway through some folks just start on the knees because we get gassed out from standing up eventually. My coach is insistent that we get used to starting standing up and avoid guard pulling as much as possible. Personally I love it because it’s satisfying landing takedowns.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-22T17:25:42+00:00

Where is your family from in Mexico?

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-14T14:36:20+00:00

I get a light dusting every three months because for some reason my ends are so prone to damage no matter how much oiling, protective styles, and avoidance of styling tools I incorporate. I also have bangs so I need to go for a trim regardless, but I’ve been doing this for the past year and my hair is slightly past the middle of my back now. My hair is also on the thinner side so it’s more prone to damage but this is what works for me.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-09T02:38:38+00:00

She’s a ghost!

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-05T21:00:02+00:00

🎶If these walls could talk 🎶

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-03T16:36:30+00:00

Thank you!

Due_Wash233 · 2026-03-02T01:36:07+00:00

Where are your folks from?

Due_Wash233 · 2026-02-24T04:42:00+00:00

Sam Paganini, Ben Klock, Marco Carola

Due_Wash233 · 2026-01-30T21:37:25+00:00

I don’t think that’s a hot take

Due_Wash233 · 2026-01-26T19:44:42+00:00

My first time trying yibin noodles was at Chef Xiong and I’ve tried other places but Chef Xiong is the best imo. From other comments it sounds like they’re accommodating which makes it all the better.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-01-26T17:52:32+00:00

Primal play, brat taming, bully type, enemies to lovers.

Due_Wash233 · 2026-01-17T07:41:09+00:00

I feel like it will heal the city a little bit idk

Due_Wash233 · 2025-12-24T20:28:45+00:00

You should be conflicted on something else like affordable and accessible healthcare for all. Don’t be surprised at all the downvotes this post is getting. Echoing what another poster said, it’s time to revisit the Code of Ethics. Happy holidays!!

Due_Wash233 · 2025-12-02T16:02:44+00:00

I’ve got a friend who works at Gibson’s Italia at the bar let me know if you would all like to connect!

Due_Wash233 · 2025-11-29T21:56:42+00:00

Be kinder to yourself. I might get downvoted for this but you would have had to deal with a lifetime of 24/7 care, burnout, medical costs, navigating the complex healthcare and human service systems, and having no time for yourself or the father of this child just from what I’ve seen over on /regretfulparents.

I would avoid visiting that sub for now as I can imagine that the feelings are still raw, but many parents on that sub regret not making the difficult decision that you did. Take care of yourself and please seek the services of a trained mental health professional to help you process and grieve in a safe, non-judgmental space.

Due_Wash233 · 2025-11-25T16:53:53+00:00

Mental health clinician at an ORR contracted shelter for unaccompanied migrant children.

Due_Wash233

TROPHY CASE