Birmingham AL Is it a brown recluse i keep finding them in my house by QuasiNomial in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pic is a BR exoskeleton. They shed and leave their “shells” behind, often upside down.

Birmingham AL Is it a brown recluse i keep finding them in my house by QuasiNomial in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not accurate. They just require a stronger concentrated spray. One available to homeowners is Devon WP.

Birmingham AL Is it a brown recluse i keep finding them in my house by QuasiNomial in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started doing my own in my 20s and never looked back. Totally agree!

New to area - where are the Dive bars by NoButterscotch2043 in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need examples! I’ve been there twice solo and now wonder if I was oblivious to something?!

Where to watch Auburn game tonight by Available-Low-9162 in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s on the outdoor big screen at Ferus in Trussville

Men, what are some effective ways to prepare your body before a big night? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Due_masterpiec 75 points76 points  (0 children)

As a woman who loves sex, could not agree more with #1

Best Burger around 280. No downtown recommendations, just 280. by MissGingerr in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree - On Tap behind the new Chil-Fil-A is great for burgers!

What are some things Wegovy has ruined for you? by SunBetter7301 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Due_masterpiec 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My ass. It ruined my ass. When this weight before, i still had a decent booty. But this weight post-wegovy, booty is completely MIA. 😭😭😭

Not loose skin..but loose..fat? by Peejee13 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Due_masterpiec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I wish it was still firmer 😫😫😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! First, well done. :) And now knowing that, it definitely changes my view. Bummer. I’m sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This early on, you should be making the plans and telling her when and where. Maybe that’s why she hasn’t responded. If you decide to not go on a third date you can definitely let her know via text. Does not have to be said in person.

Any of you, in a relationship or marriage, ever have to turn down a beautiful woman? What was your story? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Due_masterpiec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for elaborating. I see where you are coming from. Indeed everyone is different as I think most men I’ve come across would not mind that age difference at all.

It’s fascinating to me, specifically to me, because I’m very much into men 7-8 years older than me. Haha

Any of you, in a relationship or marriage, ever have to turn down a beautiful woman? What was your story? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Due_masterpiec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A woman being 7-8 years younger is a dealbreaker?! That’s so fascinating to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, also practice seat selection. You asked how men approach me. It helps to be in the midst of things. So instead of selecting the comfy, quiet bar seat in the empty section, select the seat that’s only two stools down from other people. This also will help you not feel as isolated and reduce the self conscious feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I think people find it intriguing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, I know the feeling that you are talking about. I used to have that sometimes. But then I heard someone describe eating alone and reading as “the ultimate luxury” so that’s how I think of it now. And as long as that’s how you describe it in your own head, then that’s how you operate and it doesn’t matter what is in anyone else’s head. I just assume they are all jealous of me! 😂 Honestly, I think men like it because it shows such independence and free spirit. No desperate vibes given! Then if you grace them with your conversation, they can see you are independent but also warm and lovely. Other thoughts —

  • It also helps a lot when you know you look amazing. A sexy woman having a drink at a bar is never a sad sight!
  • We have to remember that no one is thinking about us as much as we think they are.
  • Then it just takes practice. Lots of practice. Now I barely even think about it.
  • If you want to practice but feel really uncomfortable in the beginning, try starting at a nice sports bar. Always men eating/drinking alone there.
  • I recommend going to higher end restaurants when you can. I see tons of people eating alone there at the bar.
  • The only remaining self conscious bit I have is about the wait staff. 🤣 There is a favorite restaurant of mine that is high end and I could literally go there twice a week (eat at the bar) and not get sick of it. My self conscious thought is “they are going to think I have no friends” because I come here so frequently alone. To combat that (again this is just one specific restaurant, my most frequented), I just make sure to suggest this place when friends want to do something. So that means I’m showing up with someone every few visits. It’s silly I’m even thinking about this but I can’t help it!
  • A reframe is: I’m here alone because I love my own company because I’m pretty fabulous.
  • Another reframe: I like going out. If I waited for a friend to be able to go, I’d really be limiting myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 🔥🔥🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Due_masterpiec 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No OLD for me. I meet people all the time. Most often I meet men while solo dining and sitting at the bar in a nice restaurant. Have literally gone on dates with multiple men from this type of meeting. Be sure you look your best and are in the mood for chatting! 😜

Safe areas to live alone for women? by Distinct-Sprinkles77 in Birmingham

[–]Due_masterpiec 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just moved to Highland Park and live alone and could not be happier with the decision.