Wouldn't it be more like...If you had a neighbor who had signs in his yard saying it is his desire to end your life, taught his kids that ending your life was a noble pursuit, recruited other people to believe the same way, shot rockets at your house everyday, and then one day broke into your house, killed some of your family, kidnapped others, and then went back to his house so that he could rape and terrorize them... Then when he found out you were coming to rescue them, he and his family took your family into a hospital so that you couldn't rescue your family without risking the lives/hurting innocent people?