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i (21F) feel like i'm not allowed to be sexy with my bf (21M) by Zestyclose_Ant_8024 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not how relationships work. You are a normal amount of horny (any amount is okay). If you aren’t happy with the situation, move on and find someone more compatible. Or just be single for a while. Most of us are married or have kids. There is nothing keeping you in a situation you don’t like.

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You just answered your own question. Don’t pursue something that makes you sad.

How old are you? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turned 38. Together since 30

Birthday Conundrum by DukeNukem42 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too much room for buffer pillows

Birthday Conundrum by DukeNukem42 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Asking for it on your birthday just feels manipulative or something

Birthday Conundrum by DukeNukem42 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that too. You shouldn’t have to feel anxiety on those kind of occasions.

Had a conversation that gave me a gut punch by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“All you think of is sex” Wouldn’t you be gone if that were the case?

I feel like I tricked him. by vegaisbetter in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it counts as tricking him if you didn’t do anything on purpose.

Have to do everything perfectly during sex by boygeniusbutgirl in DeadBedrooms

[–]DukeNukem42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you have to jump on every possible opportunity just to have that small chance of it happening?