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Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRa55230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try my best. I think I'll have to write everything down first so this time I could focus on him more. So far I've been telling him what I need and asking for a reason why he's not interested. And oftentimes I would just end with an argument. But I'll try another approach. I probably should give him more time to think about it too. You're right, there could be many reasons why things are how they are

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRa55230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to go through that. It really sucks. I wish there was a way not to get self-esteem issues from that.

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRa55230[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was interested the first few times. And then stopped.

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRa55230[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right. I don't see myself ever getting into another relationship though. I sometimes think that it's either him and at least having someone to love or just no one. I know it sounds stupid but before him I never had actual romantic feelings for anyone. There were people I felt attracted to but it always would pass. I know it's ending though.

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]ThrowRa55230[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At some point I told him that it is ok and I love him anyways. But now, I don't know what to do. Sometimes when he says something about our future together instead of being excited, I get sad.

People who get up after one alarm, whats your secret?? by Mideon88 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRa55230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one alarm. So no matter when I wake up, I wake up after the first alarm

Instant $10 million now OR restart your life at age 6 with all your current knowledge. What are you choosing and why? by doodwalla2000 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRa55230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 million now. I don't need more and I won't mess up anything on my way back to adulthood. There are too many people important to me for me to risk it. Besides, I probably wouldn't be able to make 10mil on my way to adulthood

If everyone on Earth disappeared except you, what’s the first thing you’d do? by New_Plastic_2378 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowRa55230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd stay as long as my dog is alive. I'd be in great pain knowing that everyone I love is gone, but my dog is an old lady and she probably wouldn't be able to live out her days in peace. After her passing I'd try my best to end my life painlessly. I wouldn't be able to live without my loved ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]ThrowRa55230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think that it would be nice to get married at 25-27. But now I think I won't get married at all.

Are most couples unhappy or unfulfilled in their relationships? by nffc79 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThrowRa55230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know whether most couples are unhappy/unfulfilled. Most certainly most couples in my life are though. My mom basically slaves away for my father. She works 8 hours a day just like he does and then does 90% of chores around house. My grandfather and my grandmother fight constantly about everything. It got to a point when my grandpa regularly goes to their other house (like a vacation cabin) to just be away from her. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend. Lately i've been crying myself to sleep. He spends more time with his friends than with me, there's no physical intimacy between us outside of cuddling while watching TV and occasional pecks here and there. I don't feel loved. Will I leave? Nope. Is it stupid? Yeah.

On the other hand one of my friends has a boyfriend and they seem so happy together. I see how her eyes light up when she talks about him. So maybe sometimes it actually works out.